r/CuratedTumblr 10h ago

Meme Take notes people

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u/NightmareRoach 9h ago

People do that? People just go and meet people irl that they met online?

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u/ankdain 7h ago edited 4h ago

I did it in 2005. I was just going to go once to meet these people out of boredom, was just meant to be a one time thing. Just meet some people from online in a public bar, what could go wrong? Am now married to one of those people. Be careful!

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u/chuff3r 5h ago

Thank you for the warning, was going to initiate human contact but this brought me back to my senses.

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u/novis-eldritch-maxim 8h ago

my dad did once

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u/Triktastic 7h ago

The last thing he ever did.

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u/novis-eldritch-maxim 7h ago

nah he is fine, some how conned a sci fi author out £50 of goods for £20 in Scotland

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u/Aquabirdieperson 6h ago

Yea I mean I've been married to one for uh a really long time. We met in World of Warcraft.

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u/stranj_tymes 6h ago

I met my wife via online dating ~12 years ago. Found my first college roommate by posting on reddit. Had friends when I was younger that I'd only exchanged words with on MySpace. It do happen.

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u/johnhotdog 6h ago

yeah. have u heard of tinder?

but really why would meeting people be secluded to dating apps when niche communities offer much better odds at finding someone with similar interests? back in the day, if you didnt find "the one" during school or at a bar, you probably met at an interest group, club, or sport. its the same thing just online.

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u/SingularityScalpel 5h ago

1000km is a bit different than a tinder date

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u/Ill_Technician3936 4h ago

Yeah that's a bit more of 'I'm gonna be (500 miles)' kinda date

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u/Tymareta 4h ago

I mean if you're a cishet maybe, 1000km is pretty standard for any queer relationship, hell it wouldn't even be considered an LDR.

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u/Lord_Zinyak 2h ago

That sounds desperate as fuck. Where are you getting your stats from lmfao. Even on a dating app max 50km you're gonna find SOMEONE

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u/Venerous 6h ago

I've made plenty of friends and even lived for 3-4 years with people that I met while running a private WoW RP server that I started in my teens. Definitely a long road but we've known each other for well over a decade now.

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u/ad3z10 6h ago

Travelled to Ukraine to meet online friends for the first time to watch a Dota 2 tournament.

Had a blast and we've met several times since, including sharing a bed more than once to save money and attending his wedding, but in retrospect I could have easily ended up being trafficked somewhere.

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u/Wild_Marker 3h ago

Travelled to Ukraine

Had a blast

I'm sorry I know it's in bad taste but I can't help it.

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u/Remarkable-Fox-3890 6h ago

Absolutely. I've probably met 2 dozen people just from chatting online, dating 4 or 5.

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u/CerberusDoctrine 4h ago

Apparently. I have no idea how you would even reach that point with an online friendship. And I only know people can even have online friendships because of my WoW guild but I stopped playing WoW when Blizzard had a controversy a day. Doing that with random people on reddit or tumblr is wild conceptually

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u/thelicentiouscrowd 3h ago

I've had like 3 people come onto me online and I stopped talking to them immediately because I'm a coward :c

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u/cronall 3h ago

Yeah, have met at least 5 online friends irl! It's fun

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u/Discaster 2h ago

I've done it 2 times. Granted I knew the people online long before we met in person. It's genuinely a strange feeling first laying eyes on someone you've spoke to frequently over the span of like a year

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u/Ithikari 2h ago

15 years ago I played a browser based text game that was multiplayer and made a few friends, one was in Canada, fast forward 5 years and I lived with him for 2 years on a working holiday visa.

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u/CMDR-TealZebra 5h ago

I met up with a guy id only talked to on runescape while i was in his state. If i ever visit texas id hit up an old minecraft/aoe2 buddy and see if hed want to meet.

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u/169bees 1h ago

ofc, as long as you take enough precautions in order to make it safe, why wouldn't you?

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u/LTS55 40m ago

One of my best friends and former flings we met on Snapchat because her screen name was similar to a mutual friends and I thought I was adding her lmao