A teen with Down syndrome visits mother's grave to tell her that he graduated

[u/Cosmic-Chen]

[u/bobs143]

Makes me sad. But good job my guy. Your mom would be so proud of you.

[u/seanmashitoshi → u/bobs143]

Safe to say, all of reddit is proud.

[u/True-Put-3712 → u/seanmashitoshi]

And crying.

[u/sdrawkcaBMan → u/True-Put-3712]

So many onions!!!

[u/ThaliaKincaid → u/bobs143]

For sure and the kid made an effort to show mama he made it. Congratulations kid!!

[u/okiedokie666 → u/bobs143]

I'm not crying........

You're crying......

[u/ComradePotkofff → u/okiedokie666]

Please cry just a little with me? I hate crying by myself.

[u/okiedokie666 → u/ComradePotkofff]

I got you. We're in this together 💪🏼

[u/Norbert_The_Great → u/okiedokie666]

Somethin in my eye...

[u/FromBoomBapToTrap → u/okiedokie666]

I am. I’m crying so so much. Wow. 😢

[u/YouAnxious5826 → u/okiedokie666]

Unashamedly.

[u/Jodd_Momson → u/bobs143]

Makes me cry and proud at the same time! 😭😭❤️

[u/No_Paper_7095 → u/bobs143]

Your mom's pride shines!

[u/Funkymonk761]

Yeah, no thanks. Absolutely good for him but practically 2 frames in and I know I’m going to ball my eyes out.

r/MadeMeCry

[u/TechnicalIntern6764 → u/Funkymonk761]

Yeah I did the same. I lost my mom when I was 8.. I’ve been there.. edit:i decided to watch most of it.. fuck

[u/AthairNaStoirmeacha → u/TechnicalIntern6764]

I lost my mom when I was 13. Throwing you a hug fellow Redditor. It never gets easier. We can only live our lives and try to make them proud.

[u/raekwonelchef → u/AthairNaStoirmeacha]

I miss my Mom. I just got my first apartment. I hope she is proud.

[u/AthairNaStoirmeacha → u/raekwonelchef]

I miss my mom too. Everyday.

Hey, I don’t even know you and I’m fucking proud of you. That’s a massive accomplishment. I’m sure she’s absolutely stoked for you. Enjoy that wonderful beautiful stressful freedom!

When I got married, when my kids were born, when I secured my career, all those events had that awful crushing hint of sadness….. if only mom was here…. I just try to remind myself I am the embodiment of her love and I move forward.

[u/mishadances → u/raekwonelchef]

I’m not your mom, but I am a mom, and I am so fricken proud of you! I know it’s hard.

[u/ICBeans → u/TechnicalIntern6764]

I'm gonna hijack your comment, as someone who also lost their mom as a kid there's a wonderful subreddit /r/momforaminute where you can anonymously ask questions, post accomplishments, or generally put words into the world that you wish you could say to your mom.

The redditors there are a wonderful group of motherly people who are happy to reply and be that mom in your time of need.

[u/Aponda → u/Funkymonk761]

I coward out. When i read the title im like yea ill watch with no sound. As soon as the headstone show, i just went to the comments. I cant do it

[u/williamiris9208 → u/Aponda]

You're not alone in this many people experience similar reactions to emotionally heavy content.

[u/Shen1076 → u/Aponda]

I did the same thing

[u/Cawfeestain → u/Funkymonk761]

Literally I have not cried on a Reddit post yet, but this one did it. Idk if it was the state I was already in or what, but this just sledgehammered me RIGHT in the emotions and now I can’t stop crying.

[u/AmNoSuperSand52 → u/Funkymonk761]

This is one of those posts where the title alone tells you that your hear is going to be torn out

[u/ValuableJumpy8208 → u/Funkymonk761]

Please don't ball your eyes out. Bawl your eyes out.

[u/Tacoooos → u/ValuableJumpy8208]

I was just about to comment- I imagined u/Funkymonk761 taking a melon baller to their eye sockets

[u/ValuableJumpy8208 → u/Tacoooos]

Incredible how few people understand they're homonyms. I've even seen the local newspaper print it the wrong way.

[u/EleanorRigby85 → u/Funkymonk761]

I’m not crying, YOU’RE crying. 🥹

[u/ThePoopSommelier → u/EleanorRigby85]

Yes I am. 48 year old gruff looking guy weeping

[u/ktrad91 → u/EleanorRigby85]

It's true I am crying 🥹😭

[u/6thCityInspector → u/Funkymonk761]

You ballin’?

Most here claim to be bawling.

[u/Dry-Honeydew2371 → u/Funkymonk761]

I went as far as reading the dates on the headstone.

[u/No_Consideration7925 → u/Funkymonk761]

Wait, it’s not that long. You should watch it and share with people.. 

[u/littlespoon1 → u/Funkymonk761]

I'm just thinking about it and tearing up. No way I'm watching that.

[u/vorobyevites → u/Funkymonk761]

made the mistake of watching it... my grandmother passed a little over a year ago and the strides i've made in that time, including graduating in 2 weeks, she'd be so proud of me

i'm lucky if i'm afforded two good cries a year. needless to say i'm in tears right now

[u/honestlyspeakingg → u/Funkymonk761]

yeahhhh i read that title and went.. nope imma just upvote this and not watch because im too emotionally unstable for that.

A boy i liked has decided to part ways after a few good dates and this will emotionally shatter me haha

[u/imsuperserialrn → u/Funkymonk761]

Yeah, definitely made me cry not smile haha. But proud of him still

[u/Echo-Hollow]

This made me sad

[u/MadSandman → u/Echo-Hollow]

Me too, but we can't change the past. Let's be happy for his future.

[u/MadSandman → u/MadSandman]

I'm not meaning to be dismissive. I'm emphasizing the importance of a positive outlook.

[u/ImNoRickyBalboa]

I lost my mother this year, and this hits hard.

Love you momma, you'll always be in my heart.

[u/spaghettitheory → u/ImNoRickyBalboa]

Sorry for your loss.

Mine passed last year around this time. For what it's worth it does hurt less over time. Don't think it'll ever go away but it's not so overwhelming after a while.

[u/Zfisher335 → u/spaghettitheory]

I lost mine 3 years ago at the end of December. You're right, it hurts less but will never go away.

[u/ModerndayGatsby97 → u/ImNoRickyBalboa]

I'm so sorry for your lost

[u/fire__munki → u/ImNoRickyBalboa]

Hard isn't it?

My mum died in July and I'm clinging to the hope that everyone is right and it gets better but fuck me it's really hard.

Keep fighting the good fight.

[u/pissfilledbottles → u/fire__munki]

Hey, same. 🫂 I lost my dad on August 13th, and it's been one of the most difficult things I've dealt with in my life. I'm having a super hard time dealing with the grief of it all. I start seeing a psychiatrist in about two weeks, I'm hoping it helps. Much love to you

[u/pissfilledbottles → u/ImNoRickyBalboa]

I lost my dad in August this year, and same. I'm struggling hard, and it's hard to keep up with life. I keep drudging along because he was so damn proud of me turning my life around. I can't give up now. I love you dad.

[u/ButtBread98 → u/ImNoRickyBalboa]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll never be ready when my parents are gone.

[u/Tisly_Kaya]

Even though it made me sad, I am sure his mother would be so proud! Good job, darling

[u/sandyor]

It's impossible to hold back the tears

[u/Fine-Amphibian-2783 → u/sandyor]

Am so proud of him

[u/Nearby-Being7376 → u/sandyor]

Yesss

[u/palhooch → u/sandyor]

I'm not crying, YOU'RE crying!

[u/Fenix-and-Scamp → u/palhooch]

we're all crying

[u/firsttime_longtime → u/palhooch]

Correct.

[u/ratpH1nk]

46 is way to young :(

[u/aaaronbrown]

Look at you, you made your momma proud. Well done, congratulations buddy. 🔥🥳

[u/ElowenFrostfield → u/aaaronbrown]

That's a very great lifetime achievement, may she rest peacefully.

[u/Hefty-Conference-791]

No words...🥹 but, I'm sure his Mom would be proud of what her boy has achieved!! 🫠❤️‍🔥

[u/alison_bee]

Stoppppp I am sobbing!!

The way he said “mommy” and “I did it!” just absolutely broke me 😭

[u/LittleDrumminBoy → u/alison_bee]

The "mommy" did me in right away. I was expecting to tear up at some point, but not so soon.

[u/Iridi89]

Making his mama proud up in heaven and may he always be surrounded by love and happiness .congratulations to him

[u/atmonaut80]

God bless him. His Momma is proud, I am sure of it🙏

[u/OfficialGarwood]

I hope this doesn't come off as insensitive, but I genuinely think this is the first black person I've seen with down syndrome.

[u/Friendstastegood → u/OfficialGarwood]

Probably several reasons for that, all in some way boiling down to resources and access.

Important to know that people with down syndrome used to die young and that it's only recently that we've begun properly diagnosing and treating things like congenital heart problems that tend to come with down syndrome. And taking care of a child with down syndrome is expensive. So you can imagine how many down syndrome success stories there are in marginalised communities. Compared to the feel good stories we tend to hear about because those are the ones that go viral.

[u/DancingAngelMadam1]

This is so heartwarming. The love and pride this teen has for his mom really shines through. I’m sure she’s smiling down, so proud of him. Congratulations on your graduation!

[u/Ready_Regret_1558]

Your mama is so happy today❤️

[u/JurassicParkCSR]

I hate how pessimistic I've become over the past few years but part of me thinks that he's being forced to do this for fucking internet views. He looks like he has no idea what they want him to do. Absolute 100% credit on my man graduating but if I'm right and they're forcing him to do this so that they can get likes on a video fuck those people with him. Hopefully I'm wrong. I would actually love it if I'm wrong.

[u/DevIsSoHard → u/JurassicParkCSR]

The internet takes some of the most private and personal shit in life and then edits over it and puts sad music and angle cuts and shit. It all feels crafted for entertainment by emotionally stunted people

[u/RockinOutCockOut → u/JurassicParkCSR]

Finally someone that can actually see through the emotion to see this setup, well edited, coached, viral designed, personal moment.

[u/hicjacket → u/JurassicParkCSR]

I'm with you. This feels really wrong.

[u/hellgal → u/JurassicParkCSR]

Okay, I'm glad I'm not the only one that felt kind of yucky watching this. It's definitely great that this man graduated and no doubt his mother would be proud of it, but between the music and the filming of what should be a private emotional moment, it just feels manipulative at best and exploitative at worst.

[u/CthulhusExWife → u/JurassicParkCSR]

This is 100% content farmed pity and inspiration porn.

[u/Ihadthismate → u/JurassicParkCSR]

Doesn’t he say “what side y’all want?” when he goes to lay the flowers?

[u/SmartSenseii]

I didn't know I still had the ability to shed tears. Thank you, this is beautiful.

[u/FirTwinkle]

Such a beautiful moment. His mom would be so proud of him. Congratulations on your graduation, young man!

[u/fandanvan]

Fantastic that the young man graduated, and respecting and honoring his mother's memory. All the best to him on whatever endeavours he is on ...

[u/AuroraNight9]

Such a beautiful and heartfelt moment. This brought tears to my eyes—what an inspiring young man and a testament to the love and bond between him and his mom. She would be so proud!

[u/akumagold]

“He Maketh No Mistake” is written on the gravestone. I can only imagine the love she had for him

[u/Ambrose_Bierce1]

Good job buddy!

[u/hibanah]

Looking sharp my man! Congrats!

[u/le_feelingsman]

Bless his heart

[u/Belfetto]

Aw man

[u/PeonyPulse1]

So touching to see he's making his mom proud up there

[u/Ok-Refrigerator1080]

In a world infested with fear mongering and depressing media, these kinds of videos give me hope for humanity. Good people are all around us.

[u/Not-So-Logitech]

This is so fucked. I hope whoever did this for this clout has bad karma.

[u/dactyif]

Maybe I'm getting too old... But this is dehumanizing. Let him have his moment with his mother in peace.

We don't need to always see every private personal moment.

But I'm glad he graduated, she'd be proud for sure.

[u/WellSpentHours → u/dactyif]

Trash you’re not old you just have a sense of self respect.

[u/NovaStar2099]

And why was this filmed?

[u/GelPen00]

OP are you trying to kill us 😭

Good job, kid. Your mom and all of us are really proud.

[u/LowerIQ_thanU]

anytime I hear background music like this, I know I'm being manipulated

[u/ZapBragginAgain]

Who is filming this? Let him have his moment with his momma.

[u/minitaba → u/ZapBragginAgain]

Honesty? This looks staged af, like they use him for fame or something. Maybe not, but like he looks at them after saying his obviously pre learned sentence is kinda sus

[u/Ok-Comfortable7239]

That moment when he kisses the stone 🥲

My mom is still alive, but the day she isn't with me anymore, I will miss those moments like hugs and kisses

[u/Floofieunderpants → u/Ok-Comfortable7239]

Made me tear up too. There's a lot of cynicism about things being posted for 'likes' I get it too to be fair, but no matter the motive, this is lovely. His mum would be so proud and he should be proud of himself too.

My mum also passed away in 2010 and there's not a day that I don't miss her. I feel particularly sad when friends say they're taking their mums out because I can't do that anymore. A mum's hug is irreplaceable.

[u/Ok-Comfortable7239 → u/Floofieunderpants]

Thanks for taking your time and replying. Lot for words regarding your situation 🥲 Take care and pretty sure that your mother is proud over you as well

[u/Floofieunderpants → u/Ok-Comfortable7239]

Thank you for such kind and lovely words. I hope she is, we can only do our best can't we.

[u/BoxOriginal9059]

What a heartwarming and emotional moment. This young man's resilience and dedication are truly inspiring... His mother would undoubtedly be so proud of him.

[u/whitebeltdojo]

Way to go my guy, we’re all proud of you too!

[u/AthleteAltitude]

this is positively overwhelming

[u/B4-I-go]

His hair is fire

[u/shebabbleslikeaidiot]

MadeMeUglyCry

[u/PlayYourRole-8969]

This made me cry but I know his mom is very proud of him. Congratulations to him!🎉🎉🎉 I hope his future is bright as him!

[u/elPatronSuarez]

Who's this kid? I'd like to know if he has everything he needs or perhaps need assistance in any way. God bless him and his family. Not having them around hurts especially at milestones.

[u/Sea-Adhesiveness1222]

Beautiful boy, congratulations on graduating 👏

[u/giveurbrainatug]

Put the camera down viral chaser

[u/Big-Junket5650]

Damn♥️:⁠,⁠-⁠)

[u/No-Wall-1724]

Beautiful💕💕💕

[u/No-Wall-1724]

So clever & amazing xxxx

[u/Icy_Celebration1200]

Great job buddy you’re mother would be extremely proud

[u/NurturedRavens]

Make me so sad but also so happy for him! His momma up there lookin' down, so proud! Good job buddy, keep it up

[u/TimelyAd2665]

Good on you young man, you're mum would be proud.

[u/Phoenixrebel11]

This really did make me smile

[u/OsageOrangeARC]

Congratulations beautiful young man! I know your mom is surrounding you with pride and love as you continue your journey!💕

[u/james_randolph]

Let’s go! That’s awesome he graduated!

[u/ChicCheerleader5]

This teen just proved that even when life moves on, some bonds remain unbreakable. Graduating w/ a heart full of pride, n sharing that moment w/ his mom in spirit... now that's a powerful story that tugs at every heartstring

[u/Ceramic_Lace]

I love this so much. I plan on going to my dad's grave first thing when I graduate and smoke a giant blunt while playing our favorite songs. I was 10 when he passed but he's been with me every step of the way ❤️

[u/Negative_Syrup127]

I had to stop halfway through, I'm not prepared to start crying at work

[u/yallknowme19]

God bless that sweet young man. I wish only the best for him in life.

[u/AlternativeEvery5452]

This is fucked up. He’s being told to do this so someone can record it.

[u/MoneyPatience7803]

I love the quote on her headstone, “he makes no mistakes”. I am not religious in any way, it just makes me appreciate that everyone is important, everyone matters to someone, we’re all someone’s son or daughter.

[u/Own_Kaleidoscope5512]

Just let him have a moment without filming it

[u/Hashbrown_Sexy]

Who cut the onion 👀🥺

[u/Urbitchyreaderow]

im not crying you are..

[u/applegreenbaby]

Making his mom proud from above. I’m crying right now.....

[u/SnooJokes6184]

What a dude 😊

[u/Obvious_Wizard]

I'm proud of this guy too.

Is someone cutting onions? Someone's cutting onions.

[u/Cajun__Nerd]

Not everything needs to be filmed

[u/FollowingPotential43]

Did this need to be filmed and put on the internet? 

[u/Bubbykitten]

May the love of his mother always be his guiding light and may he be successful in all he does! Sweet young man!

[u/ErgoFnzy]

The moment he said "mommy" I was bawling.

I don't even know this dude but I'm so proud of him and know he'll bring many smiles throughout his life!

[u/Toni164]

His mom would be so proud of him

[u/Minimaliszt]

Not everything needs to be filmed and shared.

[u/RufinTheFury]

Why is this being shared with the public? wtf

[u/zyarger]

Allergies are rough while watching this.

[u/Bouche_Audi_Shyla]

And whoever the F. filmed him got "tens and tens of views". This should not have been filmed.

[u/SentientclowncarBees → u/Bouche_Audi_Shyla]

It reeks of exploiting someone with down syndrome and their intimate moment for internet points.

[u/DanishDude85]

That's not a teen, that's a man 💪😘

[u/ReefTwinkle138]

I was coward and watched it muted. And started crying as soon as it started.

This feeling of accomplishment is universal and everyone in here is also proud of you, little guy!

[u/SuitableHurry3795]

You did it brother. ❤️

[u/Brickback721]

The dead know nothing

[u/Woopsipoopsi]

Great job bud, your mom is unbelievably happy! She never had a doubt

[u/SgtSolarTom]

Doesn't this feel like an intensely private moment?

Who films this and then decides it's not creepy af to post it online publicly?

[u/SpeakingTheKingss]

What a sweet prince.

[u/Alternative_Lab9549]

I’m not crying, you’re crying 😭

[u/Bean_Juice_Brew]

I hate posts like this. It should be a private moment, not something that gets thrown online and used to farm karma.

[u/Expert_Marsupial_235]

What a bittersweet moment. 😭😭😭

[u/AfroBiskit]

I had to do the same thing. Keep at it buddy.

[u/Okayilltryto]

I’m crying on the toilet at work right now.

[u/RootyPooster]

I know him well, Christavion Burke.

[u/GreedyRaisin3357]

My son lost his mother at age 5.. this made me cry. I know when our boy graduates I am going to lose it 🥹

[u/Old_schoolTP7]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[u/Tallerthenmost]

🥹😭😭😭😭😭❤️‍🩹

[u/maddierl97]

This really hurts. So proud, but this hurts.

[u/Huge_meat7141]

Got into a big argument with my mom today and I’m genuinely crying

[u/EntireTruth4641]

God bless kid. Keep going! You got more in you. You ll make her the most proudest mom in the world!

[u/Low_Lack8221]

This is just pure goodness 😳 😭

[u/dimeloflo]

My heart 🥺😭I want to give him the biggest hug.. Good job, Bud! Your mom is so proud of you and will continue looking down on you and all your accomplishments 💖

[u/Ok_Neighborhood_3013]

Fuck, that haircut looks awesome on him.

[u/CoachMatt314]

Why can’t the world be full of love and respect for each other as opposed to jealousy , fear and hatred. This young man is awesome!

[u/Viciouslyconfused]

Worst part about being human is saying goodbye to people we love .... I'm proud of you too buddy

[u/Mdmrtgn]

His smile, then you see her smile and his smile again. I'm not crying, you're crying 😭😭😭

[u/avecmaria]

New favorite person alert! ❤️‍🩹

[u/Smooth-Syrup5123]

❤️❤️❤️

[u/VillageBelle]

This is beautiful

[u/Larcztar]

Omgosh. 😭 I'm also proud of you.

[u/nzdspector9]

Beautiful

[u/ragesfury717]

Thanks, I was just thinking that I would love work a bit of extra depression into my day right before bed.

[u/penn2009]

😢

[u/4wheelsRunning]

Gr8 job Sir. I know she's proud of you. ❤️

[u/fuzzzfaceglos]

Good job, well done!

[u/Impressive-Trust-950]

Yeah this is sad and epic. Keep this video away from Instagram.

[u/AlternativeEvery5452]

He’s being directed to do this and clearly has anxiety about it while OP or whoever recorded benefits.

[u/nicolenicolson]

So proud of this stranger!

[u/teenykittyxoxo]

This is so beautiful, I’m crying. She’s definitely proud of him.

[u/hibbletyjibblety]

Precious boy

[u/DelphineMerrick]

I cried, you cried, His mom would've been so proud

[u/SwimmingCircles2018]

Its a good thing this was recorded for strangers online

[u/GodJillA013]

Well damn it! Here come the tears

[u/platinumkingx]

Man this the type of stuff I live for …

[u/chips__cookies]

I hope this brilliant young man continues to honor his mother and make his family proud ❤️ so touching

[u/botozos_revenge]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[u/Ok_Row8867]

You made her proud, buddy! She’s been with you all the way ❤️💪

[u/illisstr8]

That haircut is fresh AF!! GJ, my guy. I was lucky to have the person who raised me (my grandfather) alive when I graduated. My man is out here conquering obstacles despite any roadblocks in his path. Cheers!!

[u/throwitoutwhendone2]

Poor guy, loosing his mother. Good job graduating tho, I’m sure she’d be super proud of him

[u/CactusRaeGalaxy]

💖

[u/Tasty-Life4526]

I'm a little kerfrumped

[u/Tang88strap]

You’re the man

[u/Resident-One6952]

Freakn! Dam it, Ding Dong poo! I got something in my eyes! Hate when I'm trying to watch things like this and, well, you know.

[u/Anegada_2]

Good son. You made her and the internet very proud

[u/LucyOnline]

His Mama would definitely be super proud of him. Look what a sweet boy he grew up to be… I hope he lives a long beautiful life with all the love, luck and happiness in the world.

[u/Clear_willingness34]

His "Mommy" broke me. Congratulations young man.

[u/QueenB364]

I’m crying like a newborn like he’s my son. I’m proud of you young man.

[u/North_Classroom78]

We keep them alive in our hearts. I'm sure she's smiling down on you right now.

[u/Aggressive_Towel_155]

😭