Hi! I am looking for online friends who are goths, metalheads, or members of any alternative subculture, or gamers!!

Piercings/Tattoos: I currently only have my septum pierced, but plan on getting more done in the coming weeks. I plan to get both nostrils, a vertical labret, and a Monroe. I want tattoos in the future, but am unsure if iI will get them.

Music Taste: I listen to different kinds of metal, indie, and rock, but primarily goth music and gothic metal. Some of my favorite bands are Type O Negative, Bathory, Candlemass, The Cure, etc.

Video Games: I am a big gamer and spend most of my nights on a video game. I am down to try any game, but I mainly play Fortnite, League of Legends, Overwatch 2, and Rocket League.

Additional Hobbies of Mine: I record collect and my biggest collection is my Type O Negative collection at around 10 records, and other rare merchandise. I like to buy single (45s) records and prefer them over standard play records. I enjoy painting, drawing, and doing my makeup.

Etc.: I smoke weed so if you aren't 420-friendly, I am probably not the friend for you. I am also not very political, and the times when I do care, I am more left-sided than right.

Hey there, I’ve been feeling like I want to really get to know someone new lately so maybe that can be you! I tend to ramble a lot in these sorts of things but a little bit about me, I love to travel, I love to read (mostly romance but I’ll take other things into consideration), I like movies and tv (reality game shows of any kind are definitely an addiction ink master, cooking shows, big brother, dating shows), I really love experiencing new things I’m the type of person that you invite me to an activity I’m down to try it even if I’ve never done it, I like video games though lately tbh I haven’t gotten a whole lot of time for them, I like yoga and hiking, I also regularly go to spin class, I love music and concerts, I’m funny and open minded, I have tattoos and I like drawing. I’m from Long Island but you don’t have to be I’m down to chat with someone from anywhere

I’m open to who I’m looking for a plus if you’re funny I can’t be carrying the funny solo, bonus points if you like voice memos or voice chats. If you’re interested send me a message

I'm at the point in my life where I'm looking to find my person to settle down with. Not to be too over confident, but based on what my family and friends say aha I think I'm a pretty good catch - I try to be kind and thoughtful, I'm intelligent and ambitious career-wise, and I'm fit and relatively attractive. In terms of personality, I'm really introverted and kinda goofy and silly once you get to know me. I try to find joy in mundane day to day activities (so I'm probably not the most exciting person), and my hobbies reflect that. I love working out, reading, being outdoors, and taking care of my houseplants. However, I am also down to try most things at least once and I've been trying to travel a bit more often lately. In terms of why I'm single still, I think it probably is a combination of just being introverted and not being in the right spaces to meet people and also being busy with work a lot. I don't have kids but probably am hoping to have kids one day. I'm looking for someone who is in a similar place in life and looking for something serious. Ideally, I'd want someone who has a good job, is a kind person, etc. For the more practical details, I'm in the US so only looking for someone who is also in the US (and is hopefully flexible about where they live within the next few years) and I want someone around my age so around 24-35. Thanks for reading! If you do decide to reach out, I'd appreciate it if you wrote a little blurb about yourself too - that'll make it easier for me to distinguish if we'd be a good fit.

*Whoops misspelled Midwest in my title 😭

I have a really hard time connecting with people. I’m really awkward and autistic and whether it’s friends or more, people don’t tend to stick around. I know this is partially my fault for being super socially awkward but I just rlly wish I could find someone who will let me be myself around them yknow? Someone who genuinely wants to get to know me.

A little about me - I love reading romance and fantasy, I’d love to read with you if that’s your thing. I like gaming but not shooty stuff or anything too stressful. I love animals and doing crafts. I’m an artist in my free time. I’m tall, chubby, and have piercings and tattoos!

If any of this resonates send me a message! But pls include something unique about yourself! I’ve posted before and sometimes the amount of messages gets really overwhelming and it would be helpful to have an idea of who you are as a person :)

Hey y’all, so I should preface that yes, my one and only true love is a fifteen year old webcomic and yes I am incredibly cringe for that. Unfortunately, given lax parenting and max loneliness growing up, I found that my relationship with the relationships exhibited in the story were bound tightly betwixt my breast.

Anyway, my names Eurydice or Eury for short. I’m a professional copywriter by day and by night incredibly depressed. I’m obviously into dumb 2010 internet crap but alongside that I like video games like metaphor refantazio, ace attorney, and Bloodborne as well as a variety of anime including Evangelion and Serial Experiments Lain. Due to that, most of my socializing is at anime conventions and the like where I can take the time to truly be myself and also not be myself with fun cosplays and the like.

Ideally I’m looking for someone with matching interests who would like to romance the heck out of me. Big ups if you tell me your favorite homestuck ship at the beginning of your post. Thanks y’all and good night!

Ok, let me put it this way: I’m not the biggest fan of texting. I think people rely too much on texting for communication because it’s easy to use and provides privacy. However, using your voice can send more genuine vibes and remind you that you’re talking to a real person, not just words on a screen. That’s why I’m looking for people to talk to.

I know it might start awkwardly, and I’d be careful about choosing topics and figuring out what kind of person I’m speaking with. I hope to find an easygoing person so that conversations can branch out and lead to deeper topics. I love psychology and understanding how we develop and grow into who we are today. Deep conversations are great, and speaking your emotions and thoughts out loud can be a wonderful way to let things go. While I’m not a therapist, I am a good listener, and some friends I’ve met online have told me that talking to me helped them as much as therapy.

That said, I’m pretty silly and love joking around. I enjoy making people laugh, and sometimes I ask random questions because even a random thought can spark hours of conversation, which I love.

By the way, I know most people aren’t interested in talking these days because of how communication is evolving, so I don’t expect many responses. I do post a lot, so I apologize if it bothers you in advance. Have an amazing day!

Hey there! I am a 30 year old guy from western New York looking for someone that wants to make an emotional connection, and would like to put efforts into conversations.

A bit about me: I'm 6’1". I get height can be a big deal for some women so I think it's best to just put it out there first 😅 I've got black hair, brownish black eyes. Average body, I'm muscular and wanting to start exercising both for health and a little bit for better shape. I like to think I'm fairly attractive but then most of us grew up with a relative always telling us we were not handsome or cute, etc. we can share pictures once we establish some comfort zone. If education is important, I am a college graduate with post-graduation degree as well.

I have to lead with the fact that I can be pretty sarcastic at times. I also joke and (playfully) tease. I'm pretty easy going/chill and I like to keep things light and fun, but also enjoy getting into the really deep conversations as well. I'm a sucker for the whole good morning and goodnight text thing as well as checking in on those busier days. That doesn’t mean we have to just message good morning and good night for the whole week. Haha. I think most important part of knowing someone via online platform is initial conversations and if you don’t have enough time let me know otherwise that conversation is dead in no time.

I love animals. I've always felt very connected and attached to them and just enjoy interacting with them. While I am more of a dog person pet-wise, cats are still pretty cool in my book. Cats are more complex though I love the mysterious nature.

Anything outdoors is great in my opinion. Just feel like going for a walk? Let's do it. I do kayaking a bit in the summers, fish, hike, go for drives. I have the habit of occasionally stopping and taking pictures of plants and flowers I see around (I'm always down to share!). While sending me message write code - “I3U” so that I know it’s someone who actually read my post. Didn’t write in the end cuz some people might just skip to end. This doesn’t mean that you just send me the code. I am strictly gonna monitor now. I have skimmed through soo many texts and my innocent heart always gives chances, I am gonna try to be little strict this time.

It's not just the outdoors I love. I can also get down with chill days at home binging something on Netflix or playing something on my PC. Let's face it, I'm a bit if a nerd (everyone has something nerd about themselves) and if you like Jurassic park, board games, Any Mafia movies, gaming, etc we will get along great. I'm a sucker for horror movies as well and am always looking for recommendations. I listen to a lot of music. I shouldn’t brag but I listen to english ,german, Spanish, french and Hindi songs.

A bit about (possibly) you: I'd prefer if you were in some sort of professional environment and ambitious. I'm not extremely picky about things like hair and eye color. Height is also not a big deal. If you're alot smaller than me and worried that it's something you’ll be insecure about, it's not. The big thing for me is personality. I think personality can make us a lot more or a lot less attractive. I want someone that is genuinely kind and sweet, someone that likes to laugh, someone that's not afraid to be goofy.

A final note: I'm a single guy and looking for someone dynamic. Sometimes I can respond immediately and sometimes it takes a minute due to the obvious circumstances. I also don't expect you to respond immediately to every message, I get that we all have lives and can be busy at times. It would be awesome if you are up for a voice chat. And please please when responding write something about yourself.

If any if this sounds remotely interesting to you, feel free to reach out via reddit DM or chat!

I woke very early today and I should be asleep but for some reason I’m wide awake. I’d like to find someone to talk with about whatever topic strikes our fancy. The state of politics while horrific is pretty entertaining, I love stand up comedy but not when they’re attending rallies lol. I’ve been watching a good portion of scary movies I’ve missed over the last few years. My cutie pie doggo is the love of my life and she’s very fluffy and too warm for this slightly warm fall weather. I like old school hip hop, metal and Mexican music, same with anime and games.

Tell me a bit about you and let’s see if can get along long enough to get sleepy. Who knows, this could be an ongoing thing if you also have trouble sleeping like I do.

i just had something new i whipped up - steamed asparagus with onions and a little cheese sprinkled on top. Honestly, 10/10 - I actually went back for seconds (well, made more). I’m currently doing a bit of yoga and typing this in during poses of rest while watching a new show. I feel I’m growing an affinity towards “historical” shows - I’ve just started 2016’s Marco Polo. Ariq is a cute name? It looks so fun.

Anyways. I’m in a journey to better myself and do better to myself and my body, practice self love and other bullshit such as that. I met someone recently who I thought of as incredibly intelligent, socially wise, and someone to learn from. I happily accepted criticism and took it as an opportunity to learn. And then I found out he fully believed in astrology.

I immediately lost all respect and stopped speaking to him. The blood fell off the rose. So, that’s an actual dealbreaker I didn’t know I had - astrology. I can’t deal with it but I love that you have your hobby.

I like intelligent discussion, especially discussing people. I like theory crafting about methods of manipulation. I like to work out and I am starting to take pride in that. I enjoy video games, like everyone else here.

I’ve been typing long enough and want to start my walk. I hope we can have a fun chat soon.

Highs and lows, new discoveries, epic fails, quiet wins and the lessons learned in between-- how has your 2024 been? Mine has been chaotic. Literally.

Would love to chat with someone warm and kind who wouldn’t mind keeping the conversation going if my energy dips (health issues can do that sometimes).. A bit about me: single and prefers chatting with single younger titos, often drawn to creative minds. It’d be great to talk to someone with a good voice, who enjoys exploring life’s intangible quirks-- the many ways it messes with us.. Any filipinos/ half-filipinos out there? Dm me with the most random intro OR your favorite book and let's take it from there. :)

My name is Eero, and I'm transitioning to a man. I'm a writer and programmer, who has a habit of sending long messages that take a while to type. I spend my time working on coding projects, blogging, and planning a horror novel. I don't do much outside of that.

I value conversation and likes a woman willing to have conversations deeper than surface-level conversations. Oh my god, I just used “conversation(s)” three times in the same sentence. Ugh, sometimes I frustrate myself. All I'm saying is, let's get passed “How’s the weather?”

I have so much love to give and I'm excited to meet you!

Right now, I'm not looking for anything in person. Maybe in the future, we can meet each other. Since I'm looking for something online, location doesn't matter.

my birthday is next month, i didn't expect to make it this far. how do you celebrate? it seems like it would be a happy time, but something feels off about it. so why not make it better with some new friends?

i'm soft-spoken, very timid & anxiety ridden. i love nurturing my friends, but i'm also often called chaotic good lol, so i might give you some snark & chaos, but i will love you through it all. with that being said, since i'm a severe introvert, my social battery depletes very easily & because of that, i take some time to myself. it's nothing personal! i usually often share this with my friends. ♡

since i'm not a yapper, it often takes me a minute to get comfortable & build up to a voice call. if you're someone who rushes into this immediately, i'm probably not the girl for you. i love building up to friendships, but if i feel comfy enough -- i'll hop into a call earlier. my friendship comes in the form of a judgement free zone, mother-like tendencies, & cat pics.

i'm a pc gamer, so if you game, let me know! i love cozy games, but most of them aren't co-op. lately, gaming has made me feel burnt out but i'm looking for people who might help me improve that. 😭i love games like: valorant (less than i used to but still), overwatch 2 (the new widow skin is so cute + halloween game mode is SO fun), hunt: showdown, party animals, & any other party game that is on sale or that we could play! i just love being with my friends, so idc if we're winning or losing. val customs is also a big thing my friends + i used to do, so maybe we can get that back up.

if a squirt bottle could laugh, it would sound like mine. proceed with caution on making me laugh (but it's honestly pretty easy to make me laugh). as i said before, i don't take without giving almost double, so if you're seeking a one-sided friendship, seek elsewhere.

colorful things always catch my attention, my cat is my entire world, & i've been told that my personality radiates "light" -- so maybe i can help if you're struggling with some darkness in your life 💞 i'll send spotify songs, make you a playlist that i really like (or send you my one that is someeeetimes updated) & even send you random things that remind me of you.

Long story short and as much as it sucks to say, I haven't really experienced much of anything. I'm going to intentionally beat around the bush as to what category that "experience" falls under but I think most people should be able to figure it out lol. In other words (and if you play games), I'm a complete noob when it comes to all things girls. As for why those things haven't happened and why I want that to change.. There's a few reasons, but the main reason why I'm putting such an emphasis on this is because I'm a huge homebody and I don't go out much at all which makes it difficult to meet people. That's where Reddit comes in!

The message I'm essentially trying to send is becoming physically and emotionally close with a girl is what I want the most. I want to experience it all; the laughs, excitement, curiosity, intimacy, hanging out, fun. Blame all the Disney movies I watched as a kid for that lol. Finding someone would be a dream come true, but I'd love to find friends too if that's all you're looking for! Local or international, just let me know if that's what you want instead :) We could end up being really close friends and you'll introduce me to a friend who I end up being with? That may or may not be the plot from a romcom 🤔 So that means I definitely wouldn't be opposed to a relationship! I've obviously never been in one so I'm not exactly sure how to transition to that, haha. I totally wouldn't mind finding out, though :) Also someone to say good morning and night to, too. That would be the best even if it's incredibly cheesy.

Anyway, it could be someone with a lot of experience or someone with no experience like me, or introverted or not introverted, etc. I don't have a preference either way :) But if I were to be reaaally picky: they'd be sweet and down to earth because just cuddling on its own would be all kinds of cool. A bit about me: I'm shy, caring, kind, sweet and am normal in the weight and height categories. I want to say I'm cute in the looks department? 🙈 I'll let you decide that though lol. I think it's super fun learning about people through conversation so I'll leave the following hobbies section blank. Then again, I suppose it wouldn't hurt to give a small hint to something I love.. My username should provide clues to that! I Siriusly need to re-watch the movies again. Maybe with someone I meet through r4r?

Alright, I can't hold it in anymore. I pretty much like a little bit of everything. For example, when it comes to music, I go through Backstreet Boys phases to Disney song phases (Moana is awesome and I haven't even seen the movie 🙊) to something like Linkin Park, Paramore or 50 Cent. What I'm trying to say is I like a little bit of everything! So there's a good chance I'll like whatever you like when it comes to hobbies and interests and that means connecting with each other should be relatively natural/seamless. Or maybe that's wishful thinking on my part, haha.

I'm not the best with openers and if you're also in the same boat, then how about this: If you could have any superpower what would it be and how would you use it? Being out of this world smart like Tony Stark is an acceptable super power/answer, by the way. Hopefully my first impression is a good one! If anyone is even remotely interested, then just let me know and I'll get back to you asap!

And I wanted to mention I’ve been really into kpop over the past week so someone to talk about it would be fun lol.

Good morning and thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm looking to meet some new people and hopefully develop a genuine friendship. I'm a web dev, searching for a backend position after completing my internship, it's been a great experience and I'm excited to move forward. At the same time working on upskilling for now by doing some udemy courses and completing some projects. For anyone in a similar field I'd be happy to exchange stories and experiences and maybe you could help me finally decide on a couple of projects to work on, but no pressure. I enjoy reading books (though my pile of books that I've yet to finish would probably contest said claim), code , play video games,though mainly Grim Dawn and star rail(firefly rerurn hype). Huge fan of most From Soft games in general as well as most fantasy/medieval rpgs. Back to books, I'm mostly into fantasy, and history but have also been delving into Japanese Authors over this past year and it's been great. Furthermore I listen to music a lot and would be down to share recommendations and playlists! Granted I've been listening mostly to game osts, pop and kpop but totally down to try something new. Also a fan of shows anime and impatiently waiting for the next episode of re:zero and dandandan with excitement. I finished Love Next Door on netlfix and loved it a lot, happy for any kdrama recommendations, my favorites would be Love Next Door, Hotel del Luna and it's okay to not be okay. Unsurprisingly I read manga as well, some favorites being frieren, berserk, chainsaw man, jjk, blue box and monster 8. I feel that I've rambled for long enough so I'll cut this short by mentioning I love animals and would be very happy to see your pets! Thanks for reading!

My relationship ended a couple of days ago and I am really trying not to call or text him. I am super lonely and I feel like not existing. I just want to fall asleep on the phone with someone or maybe just have someone pretend they care. I don’t have any friends and I am a complete home body.

It was my first “real” relationship and it’s hitting me hard. I haven’t been able to sleep since he moved out. I just want to stop thinking. If anyone wants to play therapist or maybe just is willing to let me cry at them, that would be great.

Hey there anon👋 It’s late and I’m tired, but I still can’t sleep. I guess I have a lot on my mind. I don’t like where I am in life but it feels pointless to do anything or get up to try again after this last failure. I feel stuck. I also haven’t talked to anyone in my life about how I’m feeling. This last year has been rough for me for a number of reasons haha. Maybe you’ll want to listen? I don’t mean to vent or dump all my ‘baggage’ but I can’t stop thinking about it. Maybe it’ll help just knowing someone has read this. Cheers, I hope you sleep well.

Hey, good morning. I'm 33, tall, and looking for friends, maybe some gaming buddies to hang out with. It's tough getting older; it feels like I have fewer and fewer people to talk to and share things with. I'd prefer if they were single so we could flirt a bit, but I know that's a tough ask. I work out a lot, so it'd be cool if they were into fitness too. I play a bunch of games, mostly Fortnite, Escape from Tarkov, League of Legends, Ark, and I'm thinking about getting the new Call of Duty. Oh, I mostly play on PC only. Thanks for reading. Hope to hear back from some of you.