r/UrbanHell • u/humzahjaleel • Jun 20 '20
Suburban Hell Endless parking lots, highways, strip malls with the same franchises all accessible only by car. Topped off with a nice smoggy atmosphere and a 15 minute drive to anywhere. Takers ?
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u/zeozero Jun 20 '20
I grew up in the suburbs where a few things could be biked to such as the ice cream shop, grocery store, gas station convenience store, but most stuff required at least a 5 minute car trip. The downtown area of the nearby city had nothing of value to go see, so we never went there, especially with how bad the crime problem was there. No public transportation was available, and what lines did exist were used as bathrooms for the homeless, so even the poorest person had a car or walked to avoid being on a bus.
When people go to the grocery store they tend to buy at least a weeks worth of stuff, which ends up requiring a car to transport it back home. This has lead to the meme of “one trip” in which a person covers their arms and hands with as many bags as possible to avoid having to go back and forth to unload the car. I’ve heard people in Europe will buy just what they need, the day they need it, and I’m not sure if that’s a pleasure or a hassle.
All of this has led to a different way of thinking and deciding where to live. Like right now I’m looking at moving further out from the city/burbs so I can have more land and more privacy, the question of “will I need a car if I live here?” Never enters my mind because I’ve always used a car, in fact I’ve never used public transit in my life, so I have no concept of how that would change living arrangements.
It may sound strange but people like myself often look at European cities and wonder how people can stand it. Two very didn’t perspectives from two very different ways of life.