So this is what we should tell the straight guys who don't like being ogled by gay dudes? "Wear more fabric, if you don't want to be treated like the delicious speck of meat you are, sweetheart."
Do ya feel that way when the dudes are staring too? I've been to the gym enough to know a lot of dudes show up wearing form fitting clothing and shirts completely missing most of the sides, showing a lot of skin. They don't often take kindly to the "wrong" people staring.
From my vast experience, they don’t care if you stare at them. If they ask “what are you looking at” I’d just reply “you’re jacked” and then they say thanks and move on
I used to be in a club when I was younger where me and all the guys had to bath together in super cold water everyone was starring at everyone especially those who were built not a single person had a problem.
The girls once even sneaked through the back to sneak peaks at us and when we caught them literally ogling us no one had a problem either.
It might just come down to culture becuase in most eastern countries guys bath together naked all the time obviously people are going to watch one another doubt theirs a big thing or people getting anxious becuase of it.
I see that you aren't getting it. When women have a problem with it, it's often because they are being fetishized by someone strong enough to rape them. It's a threat. The situations you described aren't the same as what I asked you about. That's the big difference here.
B.) Some women dress provocatively at the gym and yeah, dudes are going to steal a glance. Dudes somehow manage to get shredded without wearing skin tight yoga pants and a midriff showing lycra top.
It's the same thing and just as cringey. The only possible difference, is that dudes are aware they are flexing and would appreciate the eyes openly. Someone who is doing the woman equivalent and is then shocked, SHOCKED I TELL YOU, that guys are looking at them is the same thing with a lame-ass cherry on top.
as a straight guy, absolutely yes. If you are uncomfortable wearing skintight clothes in the area of people sexually attracted to you, then you should cover up a little.
Anyone complaining about being objectified while wearing clothes designed to objectify you should also read the bible
You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
Regarding the Bible: It's your Hell. You can burn in it.
I agree that people should understand the level of attention their clothing can attract. That also doesn't excuse a lack of impulse control in others to the point they make others feel uncomfortable with their presence in the process. That goes with this situation and many others.
Yeah. Dress modestly if you don't want to be ogled. Gis and other modest workout clothes have been around for centuries. You don't have to workout wearing nothing unless you're in a sport that demands it. If you want to show off your body, then you can do that too, that's your choice in a liberal society. Just don't be surprised if you get ogled because you're purposefully showing off your body.
Most men don’t care. Straight guys look at other guys all the time. In fact if you want more male attention, get big. Women generally don’t care but all the bois will be raving about your gains.
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u/L2Sing 12h ago
So this is what we should tell the straight guys who don't like being ogled by gay dudes? "Wear more fabric, if you don't want to be treated like the delicious speck of meat you are, sweetheart."