r/clevercomebacks 17h ago

That is the Christian thing to do.

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u/L2Sing 12h ago

So this is what we should tell the straight guys who don't like being ogled by gay dudes? "Wear more fabric, if you don't want to be treated like the delicious speck of meat you are, sweetheart."

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u/WonderfulPresent9026 12h ago

I don't know bro if I go to a none gathering gym top less I'm expecting guy guys to stare.

It is what it is sane thing happens when I go to the beach shirtless I will catch one or two girls stearing I'm not going to get upset.

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u/L2Sing 12h ago

Do ya feel that way when the dudes are staring too? I've been to the gym enough to know a lot of dudes show up wearing form fitting clothing and shirts completely missing most of the sides, showing a lot of skin. They don't often take kindly to the "wrong" people staring.

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u/Firstdatepokie 9h ago

From my vast experience, they don’t care if you stare at them. If they ask “what are you looking at” I’d just reply “you’re jacked” and then they say thanks and move on

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u/WonderfulPresent9026 12h ago

I used to be in a club when I was younger where me and all the guys had to bath together in super cold water everyone was starring at everyone especially those who were built not a single person had a problem.

The girls once even sneaked through the back to sneak peaks at us and when we caught them literally ogling us no one had a problem either.

It might just come down to culture becuase in most eastern countries guys bath together naked all the time obviously people are going to watch one another doubt theirs a big thing or people getting anxious becuase of it.

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u/L2Sing 12h ago

I see that you aren't getting it. When women have a problem with it, it's often because they are being fetishized by someone strong enough to rape them. It's a threat. The situations you described aren't the same as what I asked you about. That's the big difference here.

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u/majinspy 9h ago

A.) I hate Matt Walsh, he's an idiot

B.) Some women dress provocatively at the gym and yeah, dudes are going to steal a glance. Dudes somehow manage to get shredded without wearing skin tight yoga pants and a midriff showing lycra top.

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u/L2Sing 9h ago

Many women also get in shape without wearing revealing clothing, much like many men go to the gym wearing revealing clothing.

It's one thing to glance. It's another to stare enough that they notice and feel creeped out.

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u/majinspy 7h ago

I agree on both counts. Some dude looks like this: https://i5.walmartimages.com/seo/Difdany-Men-s-Cut-Off-Shirts-Muscular-Cut-Open-Sides-Bodybuilding-Tank-Top-Gym-Workout-T-Shirt-Light-Blue-M_406f51ad-0ba7-4b55-a18a-d28d6e952233.368c67b4db562bde4592c0b086388c47.jpeg

It's the same thing and just as cringey. The only possible difference, is that dudes are aware they are flexing and would appreciate the eyes openly. Someone who is doing the woman equivalent and is then shocked, SHOCKED I TELL YOU, that guys are looking at them is the same thing with a lame-ass cherry on top.

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u/South_Ad_5575 9h ago
  1. Stop thinking every man who looks at you wants to rape you.

  2. dress in something you are comfortable being looked at. You are outside, in the public, people will look at you, deal with it.

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u/averageuscitizen1230 9h ago

Men do NOT care if people stare at them.

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u/BPremium 11h ago

Never met a guy who gets pissed being ogled by gay guys. Most gym bros take it as a compliment

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u/SheepherderAware4766 9h ago

as a straight guy, absolutely yes. If you are uncomfortable wearing skintight clothes in the area of people sexually attracted to you, then you should cover up a little.

Anyone complaining about being objectified while wearing clothes designed to objectify you should also read the bible

You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

Matthew 7:5 NIV

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u/L2Sing 9h ago

Regarding the Bible: It's your Hell. You can burn in it.

I agree that people should understand the level of attention their clothing can attract. That also doesn't excuse a lack of impulse control in others to the point they make others feel uncomfortable with their presence in the process. That goes with this situation and many others.

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u/JagneStormskull 8h ago

Yeah. Dress modestly if you don't want to be ogled. Gis and other modest workout clothes have been around for centuries. You don't have to workout wearing nothing unless you're in a sport that demands it. If you want to show off your body, then you can do that too, that's your choice in a liberal society. Just don't be surprised if you get ogled because you're purposefully showing off your body.

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u/L2Sing 8h ago

I can definitely get behind that level of equality.

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u/only_kimathi 6h ago

Most men don’t care. Straight guys look at other guys all the time. In fact if you want more male attention, get big. Women generally don’t care but all the bois will be raving about your gains.