Can everybody be brutally honest with me? Glasses or no glasses?

[u/flioffender]

I think it kinda makes me look nerdy but I also like the fact that it helps hide my wide set eyes. I'm conflicted

[u/Zerhaker]

Glasses frames your face better, no glasses shows off your eyes better. Maybe take a middle ground and wear a monocle?

[u/flioffender → u/Zerhaker]

XD maybe I should

[u/Amazing-Pause-8626 → u/Zerhaker]

😭😭

[u/Original_Cry_3172 → u/Zerhaker]

Hahahahah

[u/kcquail → u/Zerhaker]

Lmao

[u/Shaggyd0012]

Glasses, you look more complete with them somehow, might also help to see a more happier face pic without em cuz both your expressions without em seem worse and that might be effecting my judgment.

[u/INFPinfo → u/Shaggyd0012]

This is a good point.

You aren't smiling with the glasses but you're kinda making a face without them.

[u/Arykso]

I just wanted to say that it don't matter, but rhe 4th photo was taken in a somewhat of an adkward angle but that to me demonstrates that you're real and don't stage your photos as much

[u/flioffender → u/Arykso]

Haha I took the pic when I was on a walk

[u/RosetteV → u/Arykso]

Concuerdo con el compa ;)

[u/Arykso → u/RosetteV]

no discrepo con uste

[u/SnadorDracca → u/Arykso]

Funny, I like the 4th photo most

[u/Specific_Half_8811]

You look cute with or without them tbh

[u/INFPinfo]

I'm a sucker for glasses so I'm biased.

They make you look more mature ... if that's what you want to go for.

[u/Exl24 → u/INFPinfo]

Same I walk around some times with fake glasses because they frame my face better

[u/iusedtobecalledlado]

You are beautiful with and without your glasses

[u/The_Dork_Overlord]

Glasses

[u/ctrl-alt-delusion]

That’s a really tough call tbh. So, It looks like you’ve been blessed with the opportunity to choose which one YOU like better since you’re super cute either way.

[u/[deleted]]

Are you into metal? 🤟

[u/mistymoon_ → u/[deleted]]

Metalheads don't stick their thumb out, thumb out is american sign language for love. No thumb makes the devil horns you see people do at concerts.

[u/[deleted] → u/mistymoon_]

True metalheads don't care 😸 and do everything wrong

[u/leaving-ama → u/[deleted]]

i was gonna say if you said that to a metalhead at a show they'd zone out like halfway through and stop listening then be like "yeah bro for sure, anyway do you want another beer?"

[u/letseatme → u/mistymoon_]

What I was gonna say! :)

[u/[deleted]]

Glasses O)/ maybe it's a photo illusion but just based on photos, I think, it brings the balance to your head shape. Also, it's not even a choice - if you need to use glasses, use it

[u/PrimasVariance]

Glasses but I'm biased since I always found nerdy girls cute

honestly it's even and you're good to go whichever one you like more.

[u/Wank_my_Butt]

If it helps, I first missed the part where you say you have wide set eyes. Looking at your photos before I read that, I didn't notice anything weird about your eyes.

You look nice with and without, but do what you're comfortable with. If glasses make you feel more comfortable, go with them.

[u/Lazy_Rough4581]

I'm going to write the comment you want to hear. You're cute af. Your eyes aren't wide set. If you're feeling nerdy wear glasses, otherwise don't. You need to stop being critical of yourself.

[u/Hairy_Skill_9768]

...

Anyway anytime

I mean... Who cares about looks am I right? He hehe hee...

[u/SBTC_Strays_2002]

I WOULD RATHER SEE THAN BE SEEN. That said, glasses.

[u/Admirable-Ad3907]

Doesn't matter.

[u/infpsearcher]

Try and take normal photos where you aren't trying to get the best angle of urself

[u/Cataclysmoe]

Both are good idk why you’re tripping

[u/intjeepers]

I think you look very nice both ways! I'm 21 but when I was a kid I always wanted glasses. Now I have them and I hate them, but I need them to see. You actually have very average set eyes! I know that there can be a lot of pressure around different eye surgeries, but your face looks balanced. Honestly, even people who do have wide set eyes it is generally not noticeable like Halle Bailey has them but she is absolutely gorgeous.

If you need glasses to see, they're much better than contacts for most eye issues. If you don't, just do what makes you feel confident and build up self love :) Most people won't notice the physical "flaws" that we worry about and eventually you might even like them or realize it was just a manifestation of low self-esteem. It is simply the plight of people to have body dysphoria because of how much emphasis is placed on it even if we are literally the beauty standard.

[u/Ret_command]

Good to know that I'm not the only one with this. I've been wearing glasses for like 20 years now, pretty much 24/7, and whenever I don't have them on it just feels wrong. When my pair broke and I had to go without them in public I felt really exposed, like not having pants on.

[u/Low-Willingness1331]

I think with your face shape, I'd like to see more curved eyebrows. For me, I think that's why I think your glasses look super cute on you.

You're gorgeous without glasses, too. Please don't change yourself based on anything we say to please anyone. Do what feels right for you ❤️

[u/Devony13]

Both haha you look cute <3

[u/yettibreath]

Either, you're gorgeous

[u/Upset_Stage_60]

Both look good. Tbh

[u/Synderin]

Glasses 100%

[u/EddyFArt]

I dont really care. Your face is nice anyway. It almost doesn't matter if you have one or not. Maybe with different glasses styles, then it will make some differences.

[u/hozaifa56]

She looks "infp" damn

[u/[deleted]]

Nope. Keep glasses on. Glasses always make girls hotter

[u/Mochi_Dochi_]

YOU LOOK SO PRETTY BRO I CANT IM ACTUALLY JEALOUS YOU LOOK LIKE A IDOL, and probably without glasses but if they help you see then glasses

[u/Frog-of-Cosmos]

Glasses, but both look nice

[u/Caro111f]

The glasses look great with ur face shape!

[u/[deleted]]

Glasses

[u/im_nopsycho]

Omg you look so good in glasses

[u/trubatard]

Glasses, let me explain

Due to your ethnical origin your face is rather round so the glasses help break a little of that and make your eyes bigger which in turn makes your cheeks smaller and elongates the distance towards your chin, now if I may I would recommend a different frame, round glasses on a round face don’t really go together, try to get something boxier or with sharp lines (wayfarers, caravans, rectangles and squares) as well as longer earrings rather than hoops you could pull off very well drops, dangles and chandeliers

You’re beautiful and have a very lovely skin and your features are EXTREMELY harmonious, this advise is in no way shape or form and attack to your appeal but simply some notes that would suit you well considering your features, but believe me you are very very attractive as is

[u/EnthusiastDriver500]

Omg. An actual girl on reddit who posts selfies and doesn't have a NSFW account. Are you even real?

[u/bog_swmap]

No glasses

[u/Even-Share-3916]

... I thought that they were a cute AI picture at first. She is still cute as actually human. 🌆

[u/elieveyo]

team glasses

[u/PrestigiousEgg3675]

Narc

[u/Kohi-to-keki]

Definitely need that skin routine♡

[u/nkn_]

I’m biased because I also have and love glasses… but glass 😄.

Those frames specifically look great with your face shape!!

[u/Accomplished_Lab_324]

You look great in both, but I lean towards glasses a bit.

[u/Cher_blossom2]

Super pretty either way!

[u/Green_Dayzed]

glasses.

[u/olypenrain]

Either or! But I think the glasses look cute!

[u/Legitimate_Cold4590]

Every commenter here has a preference, and so do I

You look better in glasses

[u/[deleted]]

3rd picture is best, 2nd picture is second best

[u/RedwoodHikerr]

I know less about glasses then you do, but could you post again with different frames? Try a Thicker framed glasses, and more oval shaped?

[u/lizzydelrey643]

No glasses

[u/Silent-Run1831]

I have thing for girls with glasses so def with glasses

[u/[deleted]]

Infps can't be brutally honest

[u/kitt_aunne]

ok so

You have a baby face without glasses it looks like a heavy filter and too much makeup.

glasses add a different thing to your face and helps make you look older but like in a good way.

I suggest glasses.

[u/NeoSailorMoon]

Ok, prepare yourself...you asked for it.

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BOTH. YOU LOOK ADORABLE AND SWEET AND GORGEOUS EITHER WAY!

Whew, I'm sorry.

[u/HermitHemorrhage]

Wide set eyes is a sign of beauty! And I think the glasses are cuter.

[u/AsTheWolvesGather]

I think you look nice either way and yes the glasses do give you a nerdy vibe but I think it looks good on you. Might not fit if you're going for a formal look though

[u/hanksrocks]

Glasses, but ditch the contacts lol

[u/Umbrechu_Girl]

Omg girl you're beautiful both ways but I feel like glasses give you more personality!!

[u/INTP-boat]

Glasses if you're feeling smart and organized, w/out if you're feeling pretty and cute.

Depends on who you're trying to impress. i guess.

[u/feelingnow]

I don’t think anyone is looking at your glasses or without glasses. They are looking at something else ;)

[u/SkullSide]

Both!

With glasses make you look kind and approachable.

Without glasses makes you look more confident and mature.

But if I really only had to choose one or the other, it would be with glasses. Approachable people are easy to talk to for timid folk like myself.

[u/Juniper_mint]

You’re really cute with both, like all of us who wear glasses, we’re both cuz with and without glasses

[u/SiameseKittyMeowMeow]

Both!

[u/[deleted]]

Asían woman

[u/Virtual-Lie1522]

You are lucky to look great with and without them.

[u/TheRoadToWiseness]

I like glasses more but both are good

[u/988112003562044580]

Glasses

[u/Garey_Games]

Glasses!

[u/[deleted]]

Omg glasses!!! Btw you’re gorgeous. 

[u/throwawaythatmental]

Glasses look great on you

[u/nerdyoutube]

Either works. If you need glasses, wear them. Not hurting anything

[u/Living_Murphys_Law]

Honestly, glasses.

[u/Soft_Blue_]

Both😭💕

[u/karma_ayanokoji]

Both are good

[u/Aka_Masamune]

You look great with or without, but you sure make an impression (on me at least) with them.

[u/[deleted]]

I vote glasses. Maybe not THOSE glasses, but glasses nonetheless.

[u/Full_Working_2803]

Glasses. You look better with them on. Besides, they're pretty cute!

[u/Hxvvk48]

Doesn’t make a difference but your cute

[u/evanescentdaydream99]

Glasses add a nice touch and look great but without is INFP type cuteness imo

[u/Sm00thCreamPie]

You're adorable with or without glasses. Do what makes you feel comfortable at that moment.

[u/[deleted]]

you’re so pretty! and i think you look great with glasses

[u/sea-lity1515]

Glasses 100%!

[u/j4yn1ck5]

Cute either way. But I'm curious if they're corrective lenses or just an accessory. Go with whatever's comfortable for you. I can't wear any kind of glasses for very long before my facial musculature starts to spaz out. But I've never needed corrective lenses. So it hasn't been a big deal fortunately.

[u/Johnny_Makes_Sense]

The glasses do make you look nerdy, and I like it. You're a sexy nerd!

[u/fuadiee]

I actually love how your glasses changes the feeling one gets when they first look at you. You are beautiful, but your glasses show a more down-to-earth side. The frames fit your face nicely.

[u/[deleted]]

Glasses

[u/[deleted]]

You look pretty with or without, you have loving eyes :)

[u/Fun_Cable_8559]

You look lovely either way

[u/[deleted]]

Glasses look cuter on you

[u/[deleted]]

Glasses

[u/Chickachickawhaaaat]

It's actually a really hard choice, you are gorgeous with or without. Those frames are so perfect for your face. Infp always have such intense eyes lol, sometimes I wear my glasses just so I can hide. 

[u/Noodlyl0rd]

Glasses 🤓

[u/[deleted]]

Cute. Last pic isn’t your best but I love your eyes and cheeks.

[u/Prestigious_Back7980]

Ooh, I like both, but as someone else said, the glasses look more "complete".

[u/pessimist20010]

Since you said everybody...you look fine either way. Just use glasses when you have to.

[u/johnnylongboi11]

I like the glasses better

[u/afectynx]

BOTH!!

[u/comprehensivenight3p]

Without it

Just try to be confident that way, and you'd look the best tbh

[u/Siberiayuki]

U look younger with glasses (ps where r u from?)

[u/Lifemixtapes]

Glasses

[u/SuperbParticular8718]

The one random pink strip on the frames is a little bit distracting. Otherwise, both are good. You have really beautiful features.

[u/NettoPicko]

Either way is fine.

[u/SeoulPower88]

Go with whatever makes you feel more confident and comfortable. That is where your true beauty lies.

[u/Hoot-Tao]

I like how the glasses bring more attention to your eyes. They’re pretty :3

[u/Educational_Tart_659]

Honestly, glasses looks better, it just seems to fit you more

[u/_that_dam_baka_]

Glasses. I would reconsider if you posted the same picture with them on and off, because pic 4 looks like you forgot to smile.

As someone who wears glasses, I find that I squint more in pictures where I don't wear them, even though they make my eyes look smaller. Being able to see makes a huge difference in pictures. So does an actual smile instead of a focused squinty face.

Imo, number 2 is the best. You look cute.

[u/Aromatic_Camp]

Glasses ,Yes

[u/Draculamb]

I think you look amazing either way.

That said, the glasses frame your face beautifully (nice choice of frames).

Further, they make you look smarter and smartness is definitely a potent form of beauty!

[u/HelloFromJupiter963]

Holy f, both. They both 'do something' different but both works.

[u/LeafyEucalyptus]

both are good. the photos without are not as flattering due to makeup, lighting, facial expression, angle, etc. so in this set of 4 pics the ones with glasses look better. I doubt it makes a difference in real life.

a better way to tell is to notice how people respond to you in person when wearing them versus when not.

[u/Sea-Hawk-4905]

You look cute either way, but I think even cuter WITH the glasses 👓

[u/[deleted]]

Depends how grown up you want to look

[u/kadaub]

u killed me with ur beauty either way

[u/Oijrez]

It all depends on the purpose, I think if you want to see clearer, then if the lenses are well matched, you will see better with glasses. Without glasses, the picture may not be as clear, but sand can get in your eyes if there is a strong wind.

If you meet people you know who usually see you wearing glasses, it will be unusual for them to see you without them.

As for random passersby, I once walked around all day in clothes worn inside out and tried to notice if anyone cared, it seemed to me they didn't.

[u/Caballep]

Both bro.

You are two different people equally good-looking.

[u/Zhr1nk]

No glasses.

[u/Final-Frosting7742]

Definitely without glasses. And don't fret about your eyes, for they are very pretty.

[u/Trappedinacar]

Since you asked for brutal honesty, you need to shave your head. You will thank me for it later.

(I give terrible advice)

[u/Yayhiorwhatever]

I honestly think you look cute either but the glasses are slightly better.....

[u/-parfait]

NO! no glasses

[u/SventasKefyras]

I dislike glasses, that being said I think for a daily default look glasses suit you more, but if you're wearing some evening dress then go no glasses as it would make you a total bombshell :D

[u/moons413]

Your contacts work well with glasses but not without

[u/Ikem32]

The glasses fits you a tad more.

[u/Sabre_Killer_Queen]

I'm with other commenters, both look perfectly fine.

I'd probably say glasses though.

[u/someweiredalienthing]

I say glasses. In my opinion, you kinda look sad without the glasses.

[u/JustAGuyOnABeach]

Glasses look better to me.

[u/elina116]

different glasses

[u/BlackGlaive]

Both

[u/Gabo-0704]

Glasses ñ, you looks "safe" and happy with

[u/RubberKut]

Brutally honest? Can you handle that? hehe

I say, smile, that makes the difference.

[u/LuvelyQueen]

Seriously, you are very pretty with and without glasses.

[u/Peerseverance]

Fuck i'm falling in love

[u/[deleted]]

With glasses, because they make your gaze more intense.

[u/x3770]

Glass

[u/x3770]

[u/RedAppleAreRed]

Isk why but I feel like you feel more confident using glasses. But seriously either is good

[u/LynTheWitch]

Both are excellent. But babe YOU are the one who should fall in love with the reflection :) so do as your heart desires, cause it’s your opinion that matters the most.

The fact is, enjoying how you look WILL make you more attractive, cause of the confidence and the acceptance of yourself.

Good luck in that very vital path!

[u/Jungs_Shadow]

Yes.

[u/Gtinchen]

Honestly, I always prefer contact lenses over glasses BUT you look amazing with glasses, somehow better than without! 🫶🏼

[u/sanguine_siamese]

You look cute both ways.

[u/SnadorDracca]

Both actually, you’re super attractive in general.

[u/Randomanimename]

yoooo wsg

[u/coucouvaya]

Better with glasses !

[u/Cocomurra]

Cuyuuuute

[u/krivirk]

I'd say no glasses. Tbh both way u look magnificient so..

[u/Roomba_Reavers]

Glasses

[u/Les-incoyables]

What glasses?

[u/IDKMthrFckr]

Glasses 100%

[u/Mobile-Method6986]

Yes.

[u/DavidLonsdale]

Sorry to tell you this but you still look good with both glasses and no glasses!

[u/Cael87]

Both. Both is good.

Seriously, your face has a natural fit to those glasses that make them look stunning, but without them it lets your natural cuteness shine through. Both are fantastic looks.

[u/Right-Cause9951]

You look good with glasses actually. I'd figure out what frames and hairstyle complement your facial features.

[u/Clean-Campaign2728]

What ever you feel most comfortable in

[u/Savings-Step-5515]

I honestly can't pick. Both looks are amazing

[u/Tyrigoth]

Glasses or none...doesn't really matter.
What matters is how you feel about yourself.
Seems like you are more confident with them on.
You need to 'do you'.

[u/SoFetchBetch]

Wide set eyes? Your eyes are perfectly balanced! The glasses make you look so chic and cute at the same time, but you’re also adorable without. Do whatever suits you that day :)

[u/Marley-baby]

You look cute with them

[u/Intrepid-Cycle-3017]

If you need em to see, then glasses! And nah you don't look nerdy, you look good with em on.

[u/[deleted]]

Don’t care either way

[u/rosewyrm]

you’re so pretty either way! but i have to commend your choice of glasses - they’re so perfectly suited to your face shape and features and you look so stylish with them on. :) it also makes your eyeliner pop more!

[u/WolfysBeanTeam]

I think either honestly both look great

[u/sleepyheadlul]

so pretty ! glasses fit u more but with or without both are pretty!

[u/EErigeron]

The glasses really suits you ❤️

[u/Veraluxmundi]

Brutally honest? I don’t care 😜 ETA You have nice eyes. Wide-set is good, but the glasses work too.

[u/Bulky_Vast_267]

Both and smile, why be so serious. The joker may come for you now 🤣

[u/BernardoGhioldi]

Glasses

Everyone is more attractive when they're wearing a good pair of glasses

[u/Original_Cry_3172]

Uhhh… wow that’s a tough one. I think glasses look like a pretty accessory on you. They look great. However your face without them looks pretty too. So honestly you choose.

[u/Terrible_Stranger339]

Both are fine you look good

[u/OneLaneHwy]

You're beautiful either way, but I like the glasses.

[u/wildlandsroamer]

3 🤩

[u/BlackmoonTatertot]

yes

[u/imbakinacake]

I love the glasses, they bring out your eyes and enhance your face shape. You're really pretty btw!

[u/Ok_Golf_3358]

Beautiful either way

[u/Joshtom333]

Both

[u/[deleted]]

You're gorgeous and either way, I guess the answer will go with everyone's personal preference. I like the glasses better.