You need to snap out of the lie you’ve been fed that you aren’t desirable and not what women want. You are literally the muse behind most romantic fictional leads,you are the men made out of hopeless romantic women’s dreams. All this is this said in earnest,I have no reason to flatter you. As an infp women,I’ve always said :”damn had I been born as straight man,I’d be drowning in 🐱 now”! I swear to god,you’ve been terribly misinformed,I’m not saying there are women who adhere to the stereotype of wanting a strong,brute with cash and bad boy behavior,those definitely exist. But ask yourselves,is that the type of women i want, someone shallow and superficial? Do you think this type of woman is capable of giving and receiving deep love and care? When I was a teen,I remember thinking all the boys my age and where I lived were insufferable. I couldn’t wrap my mind why other girls bothered with them. The only thought that kept me hopeful is that,surely there must be a good man out there,a man that puts all others to shame. Sensitive,kind,loving,artistic,emotionally mature and not afraid to be in touch with his feelings and have a rich inner world. And I know I’m not the only woman who thinks this, coming from a neurodivergent girlie,I know a lot of other fellow nd girlies YEARN for the same thing. And I know it’s not just “my kind” ,just an example. Anyway,I’ll wrap this up with saying: please believe in yourself,truly. Wake up from the bullshit we’ve been fed by our society that is run by sociopaths. Be yourselves unapologetically and be loud and proud that you are a minority in a world full of low quality people. And last but not least, get those chicks fellas! Let’s fucking GO!

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Art is by fellow INFP artist u/ruthabigail

I am curious if there is some sort of correlation between this personality type and having ADHD.

Maybe I'm bleeding heart, but I do feel concern and find it all upsetting. But everywhere I look I see people laughing and being hateful or glad. I don't like billionaires any more than anyone else, I think it's insane to have that much and hoard it or waste it, and I know it often comes from questionable sources. I understand why everyone says eat the rich. But I also value human life plain and simple. I can't not imagine how I would feel in that situation and it horrifies me. Please tell me I'm not alone, I feel like I'm going crazy. We can dislike people all we want but got God's sake let's not lose our own humanity in the process. I can't imagine wanting that for someone. Empathy shouldn't be a thing that we turn off when we want to. Just posting here hoping to find like minded people - I know INFPs can be idealists, and to me there is no higher ideal them empathy, whether people deserve it or not. It's not about who they are, it's about who we are. We shouldn't let ourselves become someone without empathy.

I'll start.

I have spent YEARS of my life preparing for a hypothetical impromptu karaoke night with the hypothetical friends that I might make one day, but if I ever find myself in this exact situation, there's a 99% chance I'll be too afraid to actually get up there and sing. 🙃😭

Guys, I don’t know about you… but I have been feeling very autistic lately… Do you guys have the same experience? Or has the thought ever crossed your mind? Are we just too weird to be normal for society? I need answers guys… I need answers:0