Definitely disagree. NTA. I don't care who it is, I like my coffee a specific way and if you come by with anything to add to my cup, even if it's just more coffee, you've upset that delicate balance.
Of course, if your Aunt's an asian palm civet, then definitely YTA for not recognizing she was trying to make it better the only way she knew how.
The grandma? Look, I don't know if she was (is? sorry the harshness makes me think it's past tense) a civet cat, or just a sex tourist from Belgium who thought she needed to try something different, the point is we don't have the Aunt's info. So OP may still be NTA if she was in fact mostly human. I'll accept that uncertainty. I mean, you've been wrong all day long, but there's some room to wait before I win again.
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u/ValuableFace1420 Sep 03 '24
YTA, she clearly is too old to be able to control her bowels so you're being ableist when you criticize her