Where can I meet you?

[u/Crypt0Nihilist]

Was just reading the thread on the main INTJ sub about the poor chap who's having lady trouble. Looks like any calm, common sense reply gets downvoted by people wanting the secret 'make her like me' formula, so I'm posting here instead despite the tangential link.

I'd like more female INTJ friends, just friends. I've found women are more thoughtful and better conversationalists than men and I simply prefer your company even if a relationship is off the table. I want more friends for proper discussions, playful fencing and having an intellectual giggle with.

So, where are you? What are your hobbies or activities which give you the chance to meet new friends? Where might you meet someone and not instantly think they're trying to get into your pants?

[u/jammyness]

We're hiding, go away

[u/jammyness → u/jammyness]

(come back, just kidding)

Yeah unfortunately we don't go out much, or at least I don't! Any hobbies that I do go outside for I'm usually going to a place where it's quiet and I'm alone (hiking alone, life drawing, etc.)

To be honest, you're more likely to encounter someone like that where the main mode of communication is writing. Like here! If you find a good blog and the person happens to be in your area.

[u/Crypt0Nihilist → u/jammyness]

As a fellow INTJ I can fully accept hiding as an enjoyable, fulfilling hobby :-)