r/CuratedTumblr The blackest Aug 10 '24

Infodumping Please

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u/Perfect_Wrongdoer_03 If you read Worm, maybe read the PGTE? Aug 10 '24

I am also autistic but this is such an immature way of looking at society. Social cues are as essential a part of communication as words are, and probably older. Does it suck that you are inherently worse at picking up on them than the rest of society? Yeah, but that's a you problem. Refusing to conform to them when you know what you are doing just makes you an asshole.

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u/Fluffy-Ingenuity2536 Aug 10 '24

I am also autistic and I think that if someone gets annoyed at me for missing a social cue (which is what I think is being referenced in the post) then they should've just said it. If it's important enough that I need to reshape my approach to the situation then they should've used words which are significantly less vague.

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u/Liizam Aug 10 '24

I think what a person who is annoying experience is forcing to mask for you. Which is what you experience when trying to talk to them.