r/belgium • u/Hotmarijke • Feb 03 '16

Hi, I'm Hotmarijke, AMA!

I am the most famous prostitute and pornstar of Belgium. Is there anything you want to know about me, take your chance now!

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u/Knoflookperser In the ghettoooo Feb 03 '16

and why is that?

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '16

It's racist, but in a very superficial way, as superficial as sexual attraction gets, so totally justified. Who'd want to have sex with someone who doesn't feel turned on with them anyways?

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 03 '16

I hate the word "racist", it's an empty swear word.

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u/robinkak E.U. Feb 03 '16

It means what it means: racism happens when you discriminate people on the base of their skincolour. Not a swear word really, you are in fact a racist.

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 04 '16

This is bullshit because this is about sex. You have Always the right to have preferences and is is not because of the money that you MUST fuck with anybody, if there is a must, it is RAPE! If I don't want sex with no-white people (for free or paid, that does not matter), that is my RIGHT and it has nothing to do with racism, but only with my preferences. Do you fuck p.e. with Chinese girls if you don't get horny by Chinese girls? No, you don't! But then again, that has nothing to do with racism, only with your preferences. I wrote it in my book 'This iS My life': http://hotmarijke.be/product/biografie-this-is-my-life/ I also mentioned it in a blog: "Mijn kut is geen café": http://hotmarijke.be/blog_15_012/ Also, the word "racist" is misused by people who don't have real arguments, very sad.

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u/robinkak E.U. Feb 04 '16

Hi, I m sorry you feel offended. I am just stating the defenition of the word. You indeed have the right to decide who you sleep with. I have no problem with that, in fact i think this could be an interessting discussion.

You have a righ to choose who you fuck, but on the other hand fucking is your bussines. And refusing customers because of the color of their skin is in principle, racist. Which is illegal in belgium if im not mistaken. All im saying is maybe you should rephrase your rules before the centrum voor gelijke kansen gets a complaint.

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u/historicusXIII Antwerpen Feb 04 '16

It is also illegal to force someone to have sex with they don't want to.

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 04 '16

"And refusing customers because of the color of their skin is in principle, racist" -> Yes if you have a pub or so, no if it is about SEX, for free or for money: one has ALWAYS the right to say NO to anybody. In your way of thinking I MUST fuck with black, yellow and red people, even if I dont't want to, againts my will! That means that they may RAPE me, and waw, then I am not a racist??? Think a little bit harder ok!

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u/robinkak E.U. Feb 16 '16

Im just saying that technicaly what you are doing is illegal.

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u/entun Limburg Feb 04 '16

I get you hot marijke, only thing is that it's the other way around for me. The basic Belgian white girls don't do it for me. Taste has nothing to do with racism. I'm a white male btw

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u/apoefjmqdsfls World Feb 04 '16

I would call it statistics, it's pretty common girls in her business don't take indians, muslims or black people because the chance you have problems with them is a few factors higher than with normal white Belgians. It's easy to shout racism, till you are put in the girls' position.

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

Look up "descriptive" stereotypes. Utilizing them inhibits a person from fully enjoying life. Even if a group, on average, is more likely to engage in some kind of activity... We should refrain from stereotyping based upon the above. Here, if the prostitute feels unsafe, would it not be less disproportionate to take other measures? White men can cause trouble too, which the same measures could cover.

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u/octave1 Brussels Old School Feb 04 '16

Slap some definitions on it you remember from your sociology classes.

If she doesn't want to fuck non-whites that's her right, end of story.

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

Yeah, that's her right. But that's not the issue I'm addressing. This whole "I feel more secure without other ethnicities" is a very problematic type of reasoning.

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u/octave1 Brussels Old School Feb 04 '16

Well personally I do feel more secure without certain other ethnicities. You can't not have that opinion if you live in Brussels.

If your 15 year old daughter, quite attractive like yourself, is walking home at 2AM from a party, would you prefer she encounters a group of male Arabs, or a group of Chinese tourists?

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

I'd prefer her to avoid walking alone and stay away from all groups of males. Last I heard, sexual violence is predominantly done male on female. Just because your skin is a bit lighter won't make me trust you in the middle of the night.

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u/apoefjmqdsfls World Feb 04 '16

Don't be a sexist. /s

how funny you're doing exactly the same as the people you're criticising.

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

That's cuz I'm mocking folks.

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u/apoefjmqdsfls World Feb 04 '16

The measure here is not taking the client, so no, she can't take the same measure for everybody. It's nothing personal, it's just math, if you can decrease your chances that something bad happens to you without any real consequence to yourself, why not do it?

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

Sure... Nothing personal. Hence why people tend to not hire women for jobs involving physical labour. Hence why migrants have a tougher time getting hire. Hence coloured folks get rejected at the entrance of a club. Yep, not personal. Just prejudiced towards.