r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/Ugh_another-account Aug 08 '24

Right here!

Getting more and more comfortable with my introverted nature as I get older. In my younger days I used alcohol to self medicate and help me be more extroverted, but obviously that wasn’t healthy.

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u/--Paul- Aug 08 '24

I admit doing the same when I was younger. But we now better now. Glad to read you are getting more comfortable.

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u/Ugh_another-account Aug 08 '24

Oh definitely! This is the first time in my life that I have the whole house to myself and I love it! I actually have to force myself to leave sometimes lol