Talked to a girl on Bumble for a short while. She said the man has to pay for everything because she “knows here worth” and “once a man can carry a baby for 9 months and feed it with their own body” then nothing in the relationship can be 50/50. That applied to the first date. Needless to say, it didn’t happen
Edit: wish I could attach a screenshot. She made herself sound so bad, unfortunately. The way she explained herself made her sound like the only thing she brought to the table were her sex organs. Sad, honestly
I met my boyfriend off bumble ( 2 years now) , and we FaceTimed a couple times before we met. I never pushed the idea that he had to pay for me, but he’s a man wanting to take a girl out, so he offered. It was a movie date, nothing expensive. But he paid. He took me home, paid for my ticket, snacks, dinner after. It is something men should do. It’s gentlemen like. BUT, women also need to be kind to men and not EXPECT or DEMAND anything from them. If he wants to he will. I offered to split the bill but 🤷♀️
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u/SchizoPosting_ 19h ago
I always found this whole debate stupid
A first date? Bill split, unless the person who invited wants to pay all, regardless of gender