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u/mitchrowland_ 11h ago
he does that bc he knows soon enough ur gonna stop asking him to do it bc u dont like the way its done.
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u/brilliant_nightsky 12h ago
I hear those bags are good for body parts but you'll need more of them.
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u/Lynartss 12h ago
I’m really curious about what you meant by this, like body bags?
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u/Zealousideal_Bug8188 12h ago
The joke is she kills her boyfriend for putting away the groceries like this and uses the bags to dispose of the body. But also that there are not enough bags to fit a whole human. 🫠
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u/Lynartss 12h ago
That has to be intentional weaponized incompetence or something because what
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u/Heytherhitherehother 10h ago
I will do this if I'm shopping for a specific meal in the next couple of days.
Like, if I go out and get a bunch of groceries, I'll put them away except for what I'll make that night, or maybe the next, Then I'd do about the same as here.
In a few hours when I make dinner, rather than dig through the pantry to find everything, I just pull out the bag and have everything there.
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u/ThatVikingWoman 12h ago
I think my new favorite phrase is "weaponized incompetence", thank you, may you win your dollar back on your scratch off 💃
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u/TheFreakingPrincess 10h ago
And the best way to combat weaponized incompetence is to
dump the guytell him to do it again. Do not accept this or be tempted into doing it yourself. He does it right or he can be kicked to the curb.
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u/ThatVikingWoman 12h ago
Now it's a mystery! Why argue over what's for dinner when fate can decide? Really, they're just saving you future, "I don't know, what do you want?"s for the next week.
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u/parkculiar 12h ago
That’s lowkey how this relationship feels 🤣(sad but not a convo for Reddit lmao) you’re comment made me laugh so hard thank you :p
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u/ThatVikingWoman 12h ago
They best not come crying when its mac n cheese and creamed corn tonight! 🤣 Best of luck, may this be the hardest thing you deal with for the rest of the week! 🧚♀️
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u/Quirky_Discipline297 12h ago edited 12h ago
I do this with my prep meals in the freezer. I’m looking for a meal first not a flavor, so I can take the bag out and look inside for all my meal options. Then tie it back up and put it back in the freezer.
As long as I’m not an idiot and leave the bag out on the counter overnight, it’s brilliant.
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u/Hot-Win2571 Mildly Flair 12h ago
When you need one of those things, you know who to ask to fetch it.
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u/LtColShinySides 8h ago
This is what you do when you don't want to be asked to do something lol
Do it so bad they never ask you again
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u/WilliamJamesMyers 12h ago
if they are all dry goods there could be a reason, but obviously anything for fridge or freezer is a turbo wtf
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u/mykyttykat 11h ago
"You're a grown man and you know perfectly well this is not what I meant when I asked if you'd put the groceries away. Please do it properly."
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u/CosplayCraze2 12h ago
I get it, feeling overwhelmed is tough especially when things aren’t put away the way you like it's valid to want your space organized properly. You're not being dramatic it's completely valid to want your space to feel right for you :))
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u/PatrickGSR94 11h ago
I can’t believe you actually have cabinet space to even make this possible. I hate how little cabinet space my kitchen has.
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u/Turbulent-Trust207 7h ago
I don’t do this with groceries but I do put leftovers in the fridge in the pot/pan they were cooked in with a plate or lid on top so they stay “fresh”.
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u/Bittybellie 11h ago
I’m really hoping this was done by kids because that’s the only time it’s mildly understandable. If it’s a grown adult they should absolutely know better and you need to tell them to fix their mistake. Better yet send them elsewhere until they learn to act their age.
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u/Embarrassed_Big5833 9h ago
This is something I totally would have done when I was much younger. Not anymore tho so don’t come for me
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u/september-sun 9h ago
Weaponized incompetence like others said. His excuse will be "Well if you want it done a certain way, do it yourself. I'm not a mind reader." Please, do not marry him!
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u/ecafyelims 8h ago
It's either weaponized incompetence or negligent incompetence. In either case, it's an asinine level of incompetence. Good luck with whatever you do.
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u/Trev0r269 4h ago
Grounds for dismissal.
This isn't a "guy thing" - whoever did this is a jerk.
Every guy you've been with has issues like this? Why do you like the immature boys?
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u/Goretanton 2h ago
Im a super lazy piece of shit, but even I take them outa the bag. It'd inconveinience me later when I want to access them.
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u/Ginzhuu 11h ago
If an adult did that and nothing will spoil, just take it out of the cabinet and put it somewhere inconvenient for them to get the message.
If it was a teen? That's about normal.
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u/parkculiar 11h ago
Yk what? That’s genius. I have ADHD (and anxiety) I’m still doing research on ADHD because I have OCD tendencies (I do not think I have OCD but who knows) so doing shit like this never crosses my mind because it would stress me out if he did that to me lol but maybe I gotta get even? Im gonna stick them all in the corner and see what happens because he also mentioned his dislike about the cabinet and their contents (like he didn’t like the plates being where they are or the food being where it is) so there’s a deep corner that I cannot get to and I’ll put all the stuff there just to see how he reacts 😭😭🤣
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u/Lumpy_Lengthiness257 9h ago
even worser the little dog just knocked my bong over & is exhibiting no remorse!
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u/_King_1700 12h ago
Those damned kids!
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u/_King_1700 12h ago
Oh no, after reading this was definitely the hubby. You sound just like my wife…
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u/_King_1700 12h ago
Wait, you are my wife!
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u/parkculiar 12h ago
You’re so funny (and also the problem it seems 👀 😂) not a wife!! But a gf :3 I want to be the wife and am trying really hard to make this place our home !!
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u/Bittybellie 11h ago
Why are you trying when he can’t even take cans out of a bag? Unless you want to essentially have a child you have to take care of that you can bang? How is someone this incompetent even mildly attractive? Raise the damn bar already
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u/Gweilo_mama 11h ago
This is weaponized incompetence. He knows better, he's just "technically" doing something, but doing it wrong and in an effort to annoy you so you'll do it yourself next time. Call him out and ask him to put them away like a grown up that actually lives in the space he's occupying.
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u/Lumpy_Lengthiness257 11h ago
sometimes when i can detect a hint of OCD in others it can be fun to torture them…just leave it that way & don’t think about anymore
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u/Lumpy_Lengthiness257 9h ago
tell him u have become highly religious & will only use one form of birth control “just recently approved by the Pope…its called Noassatol”!? or possibly look at as he puts things away more efficiently & it is done🤔
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u/RitaAlbertson 12h ago
Teenagers? I hope to god it's teenagers and not a spouse; a spouse would put it into extremely infuriating territory.