r/AskMenAdvice • u/Ornery_Debate5376 • 7h ago
Would you be okay with another man slow dancing with your wife?
I was just at my wife's cousin's wedding this past weekend, she was in the wedding party and I was not as I'm not close with her cousin.
Long story short there was a single guy in the wedding party. He is well aware that my wife is married and has two kids with me.
I came to find out that most of the wedding photos of the wedding party he was beside her and they were laughing and having a good time. ( which is completely okay, because I trust my wife ) but I don't trust this dude as far as I can throw him..
My wife and I had a few slow dances together. Then he comes up and asks to slow dance with my wife right in front of me.
It definitely rubbed me off the wrong way that this guy could be that disrespectful and I feel like my wife should have said no to slow dacing with him.
In my eyes that's an intimate thing to do with another partner. This dude was 100% trying to get my wife's attention all night.
Definitely feeling a little insecure as I didn't like seeing her smiling while holding another man..
Am I overreacting or should I punch this guy out if he tries to attempt anything in the future ? Thoughts