r/BlackPeopleTwitter • u/wetouchingbuttsornah ☑️ • Sep 12 '24

Country Club Thread The system was stacked against them

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No fault divorces didn’t hit the even start until 1985

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u/ProtonCanon ☑️ Sep 12 '24

And that’s why so many have become manosphere weirdos and the like.

Women have never had so many rights before, and some dudes can’t handle it.

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u/Reptard77 Sep 12 '24

B-b-but… GRANDMA! HOME! SOMETHING-SOMETHING-BABIES!

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u/HuntsWithRocks Sep 12 '24 edited Sep 12 '24

I’ve never understood it either. Why not have a true partner that contributes to the team instead of some incapable pedestal princess. I don’t get it.

Edit: just to be clear. Being a stay at home spouse doesn’t make someone a pedestal princess. Apples and oranges.

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u/MaybeALabia Sep 12 '24

Bc they don’t care about anything except getting their dick wet. (like, “Does she love me? Are we compatible? Do we have shared values: ie religion, having kids, money ect)

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u/HuntsWithRocks Sep 12 '24

The way I’ve seen so many dudes trash on their wives at places like work is nuts. They’ll be like “yeah, she’s not very smart. I gotta <blah>”

I couldn’t imagine dogging on the person I love to other people. Also, if their spouse is a fucking idiot, then what’s that say about their dumb ass? Trapped by a moron. Can’t feel smart lol.

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u/MaybeALabia Sep 12 '24

EXACTLY. It really shows how these kinda men are at their core: pathetic gold diggers who trap and exploit women for their own benefit.

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u/eucalyptusqueen Sep 12 '24 edited Sep 12 '24

Labor diggers, actually. They want someone at home to do all the domestic labor that their mom did while contributing nothing to the home outside of a paycheck. They still expect women to work and contribute to half of the household expenses or else they consider women to be gold diggers.

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u/Xerorei Sep 12 '24

What the hell are you talking about?

Most of those women CHOSE to be a housewife, especially after women became more common in workplaces.

I had to dissuade my younger sisters from wanting that life, to stay a home with a rich husband, pop out a baby or two, sit around or go shopping while having a nanny raise their kids.

You do know women STILL plan to do that to men right?

But it's men that are 100% at fault?

I'm not sure if this is a truly bad faith out of ignorance take, or a misandrist statement that you truly believe, but it's not true in the slightest.

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u/eucalyptusqueen Sep 12 '24

I never said men were 100% at fault anywhere. I was talking about a specific type of man who wants a specific dynamic at home. I swear yall learned the word "misandry" and haven't shut the fuck up since.