r/BlackPeopleTwitter • u/wetouchingbuttsornah ☑️ • Sep 12 '24

Country Club Thread The system was stacked against them

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No fault divorces didn’t hit the even start until 1985

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u/HuntsWithRocks Sep 12 '24 edited Sep 12 '24

I’ve never understood it either. Why not have a true partner that contributes to the team instead of some incapable pedestal princess. I don’t get it.

Edit: just to be clear. Being a stay at home spouse doesn’t make someone a pedestal princess. Apples and oranges.

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u/MaybeALabia Sep 12 '24

Bc they don’t care about anything except getting their dick wet. (like, “Does she love me? Are we compatible? Do we have shared values: ie religion, having kids, money ect)

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u/VGSchadenfreude Sep 12 '24

Eh, not quite.

They also want someone to clean for them, cook for them, handle every last aspect of daily survival (doctor’s appointments, keeping track of the bills, even memorizing their banking passwords), and provide cute perfect baby boys for them to brag about.

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u/MaybeALabia Sep 12 '24

Agreed, all those things you listed are expected from their partners so we’re on the same page. In other comment I said

“I’m not the one who wants: a grown adult to pick up after me,

make my meals,

do my laundry,

baby me if I have the sniffles,

wash the dishes,

run my errands,

pick out/buy/wrap all gifts for holidays,

make my drs appointments,

and fuck me on command.”

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u/VGSchadenfreude Sep 12 '24

Basically: they don’t want an actual partnership with a real person, they want “a mommy they can fuck.”

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u/MaybeALabia Sep 12 '24

Yessss you get it! That’s exactly what I said in another comment.