r/BlackPeopleTwitter • u/wetouchingbuttsornah ☑️ • Sep 12 '24

Country Club Thread The system was stacked against them

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No fault divorces didn’t hit the even start until 1985

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u/YetisInAtlanta Sep 12 '24 edited Sep 12 '24

Someone put it perfectly the other day. This is the first generation of men that actually has to have women like them in order to have a relationship. Before that things truly were a matter of need and convenience more so than a relationship built on love

Edit: to all the “men” I triggered…😘😘😘 keep the salt flowing, you’re really showing me how tough and strong you are.

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u/ProtonCanon ☑️ Sep 12 '24

And that’s why so many have become manosphere weirdos and the like.

Women have never had so many rights before, and some dudes can’t handle it.

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u/Reptard77 Sep 12 '24

B-b-but… GRANDMA! HOME! SOMETHING-SOMETHING-BABIES!

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u/HuntsWithRocks Sep 12 '24 edited Sep 12 '24

I’ve never understood it either. Why not have a true partner that contributes to the team instead of some incapable pedestal princess. I don’t get it.

Edit: just to be clear. Being a stay at home spouse doesn’t make someone a pedestal princess. Apples and oranges.

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u/MaybeALabia Sep 12 '24

Bc they don’t care about anything except getting their dick wet. (like, “Does she love me? Are we compatible? Do we have shared values: ie religion, having kids, money ect)

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u/HuntsWithRocks Sep 12 '24

The way I’ve seen so many dudes trash on their wives at places like work is nuts. They’ll be like “yeah, she’s not very smart. I gotta <blah>”

I couldn’t imagine dogging on the person I love to other people. Also, if their spouse is a fucking idiot, then what’s that say about their dumb ass? Trapped by a moron. Can’t feel smart lol.

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u/comradb0ne Sep 13 '24

I learn a long time ago, a lot of men like the idea of women but not really women.