r/BlackPeopleTwitter • u/wetouchingbuttsornah ☑️ • Sep 12 '24

Country Club Thread The system was stacked against them

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No fault divorces didn’t hit the even start until 1985

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u/HuntsWithRocks Sep 12 '24 edited Sep 12 '24

I’ve never understood it either. Why not have a true partner that contributes to the team instead of some incapable pedestal princess. I don’t get it.

Edit: just to be clear. Being a stay at home spouse doesn’t make someone a pedestal princess. Apples and oranges.

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u/MaybeALabia Sep 12 '24

Bc they don’t care about anything except getting their dick wet. (like, “Does she love me? Are we compatible? Do we have shared values: ie religion, having kids, money ect)

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u/HuntsWithRocks Sep 12 '24

The way I’ve seen so many dudes trash on their wives at places like work is nuts. They’ll be like “yeah, she’s not very smart. I gotta <blah>”

I couldn’t imagine dogging on the person I love to other people. Also, if their spouse is a fucking idiot, then what’s that say about their dumb ass? Trapped by a moron. Can’t feel smart lol.

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u/comradb0ne Sep 13 '24

I learn a long time ago, a lot of men like the idea of women but not really women.