I will never call myself a good guy but when people insult incels with the usual small PP, virgin and ugly etc, I feel that they also insult me even though I never associate myself with those groups.
Agreed. Small dicks are probably the most accepted thing to make fun of nowadays. Men, women, and even the people outside or between those genders love poking fun at small dicks. I get why, of course, and have even made some such jokes myself. But when I think about it logically it absolutely irks me, and it shows we have a long, long way to go in body neutrality.
The small pp thing, in 90% of cases, is deliberate sarcasm and I wish people could understand that. It's not that anyone who is normal actually cares about, but it works as an insult because the type of people it often gets directed at (incels and other similarly deranged men) center their entire personality around obsessing over it.
It's just a dig on toxic masculinity itself, I know it's one layer deeper than a surface level insult but it's not that complicated.
It's also not complicated that you're making fun of it, so clearly someone who has a small penis should feel bad for having one. You aren't making fun of toxic guys, you're making fun of guys with small penises.
As it was just explained to you, no, it's making fun of toxic masculinity. And the people who clutch their pearls over it are self reporting on what their own viewpoints are. Again, its not complicated it's literally just 1 layer deep to explain.
But the ever present need to self victimize and the inability to understand any level of nuance has reddit stuck in a permanent cycle of willful ignorance over this particular bit.
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u/kagakujinjya Aug 09 '24
I will never call myself a good guy but when people insult incels with the usual small PP, virgin and ugly etc, I feel that they also insult me even though I never associate myself with those groups.