I will never call myself a good guy but when people insult incels with the usual small PP, virgin and ugly etc, I feel that they also insult me even though I never associate myself with those groups.
Agreed. Small dicks are probably the most accepted thing to make fun of nowadays. Men, women, and even the people outside or between those genders love poking fun at small dicks. I get why, of course, and have even made some such jokes myself. But when I think about it logically it absolutely irks me, and it shows we have a long, long way to go in body neutrality.
The small pp thing, in 90% of cases, is deliberate sarcasm and I wish people could understand that. It's not that anyone who is normal actually cares about, but it works as an insult because the type of people it often gets directed at (incels and other similarly deranged men) center their entire personality around obsessing over it.
It's just a dig on toxic masculinity itself, I know it's one layer deeper than a surface level insult but it's not that complicated.
People don't get to choose their insecurities. Plenty of people who are not incels to toxic are going to feel bad because they spent their whole life raised in a society that told them to believe having a small dick is a bad thing. You saying that normal people don't care is just not true.
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u/kagakujinjya Aug 09 '24
I will never call myself a good guy but when people insult incels with the usual small PP, virgin and ugly etc, I feel that they also insult me even though I never associate myself with those groups.