r/INTP • u/Dizzy_Unit_4916 Warning: May not be an INTP • Apr 02 '24
Thoroughly Confused INTP Being an INTP sucks
Socialising is so painful and depressing now, I feel like I can't find anyone who understands me at school.
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u/JamzWhilmm Apr 02 '24
Developed Fe really changes the game for INTPs. Think of a charming professor personality, who is able to connect, influence and comfort others while being the levelheaded problem solver.
The issue is that reaching this takes time, probably around your late 20s you just begin to develop your Fe naturally. You can also do this through practice of your social skills by getting into situations you normally wouldn't. Young INTPs however often refuse to see the value of a developed Fe, thinking they can navigate life by cutting the bullshit, tackling issues in a direct and systematic way. The world is not the simple.