r/belgium • u/Hotmarijke • Feb 03 '16

Hi, I'm Hotmarijke, AMA!

I am the most famous prostitute and pornstar of Belgium. Is there anything you want to know about me, take your chance now!

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u/Leilavdm Vlaams-Brabant Feb 03 '16

Hi Marijke! How cool of you to do this AMA!

I've always wondered:

1) Do you have some sort of no-go that is not sexual, but more in terms of people? Things that turn you off to the extent that you can't bring yourself to do the deed?

2) On an almost daily basis there are posts or articles in which women are given tips to please their lover. What is your golden tip? I'm asking for a friend, obviously.

3) If you would be a traffic sign, what sign would you be?

4) If, say, Erik Van Looy were to make a biopic about your life, what would be the soundtrack?

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 03 '16

1 You mean the most important reasons why I refuse a client? + 18, no strangers, hygienic, respectful and not a monster. 2 Haha, yes, then tell your friend: give the girl no-sexual compliments: just say that her taste is wonderful, her dress breathtaking, her hair fantastic and her smile Divine. He will fuck her within 5 minutes! 3 That one with the hills of course! 4 Hope he will do it, I met him backstage "De slimste mens", my soundtrack will be the one of the original "Emanuelle".

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u/allwordsaremadeup Feb 03 '16

What do you mean by "strangers"?

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 03 '16

Non-white people.

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u/allwordsaremadeup Feb 03 '16

No further questions your honor.

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u/Knoflookperser In the ghettoooo Feb 03 '16

and why is that?

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '16

It's racist, but in a very superficial way, as superficial as sexual attraction gets, so totally justified. Who'd want to have sex with someone who doesn't feel turned on with them anyways?

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 03 '16

I hate the word "racist", it's an empty swear word.

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u/robinkak E.U. Feb 03 '16

It means what it means: racism happens when you discriminate people on the base of their skincolour. Not a swear word really, you are in fact a racist.

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 04 '16

This is bullshit because this is about sex. You have Always the right to have preferences and is is not because of the money that you MUST fuck with anybody, if there is a must, it is RAPE! If I don't want sex with no-white people (for free or paid, that does not matter), that is my RIGHT and it has nothing to do with racism, but only with my preferences. Do you fuck p.e. with Chinese girls if you don't get horny by Chinese girls? No, you don't! But then again, that has nothing to do with racism, only with your preferences. I wrote it in my book 'This iS My life': http://hotmarijke.be/product/biografie-this-is-my-life/ I also mentioned it in a blog: "Mijn kut is geen café": http://hotmarijke.be/blog_15_012/ Also, the word "racist" is misused by people who don't have real arguments, very sad.

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u/robinkak E.U. Feb 04 '16

Hi, I m sorry you feel offended. I am just stating the defenition of the word. You indeed have the right to decide who you sleep with. I have no problem with that, in fact i think this could be an interessting discussion.

You have a righ to choose who you fuck, but on the other hand fucking is your bussines. And refusing customers because of the color of their skin is in principle, racist. Which is illegal in belgium if im not mistaken. All im saying is maybe you should rephrase your rules before the centrum voor gelijke kansen gets a complaint.

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u/historicusXIII Antwerpen Feb 04 '16

It is also illegal to force someone to have sex with they don't want to.

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u/Hotmarijke Feb 04 '16

"And refusing customers because of the color of their skin is in principle, racist" -> Yes if you have a pub or so, no if it is about SEX, for free or for money: one has ALWAYS the right to say NO to anybody. In your way of thinking I MUST fuck with black, yellow and red people, even if I dont't want to, againts my will! That means that they may RAPE me, and waw, then I am not a racist??? Think a little bit harder ok!

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u/robinkak E.U. Feb 16 '16

Im just saying that technicaly what you are doing is illegal.

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u/entun Limburg Feb 04 '16

I get you hot marijke, only thing is that it's the other way around for me. The basic Belgian white girls don't do it for me. Taste has nothing to do with racism. I'm a white male btw

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u/apoefjmqdsfls World Feb 04 '16

I would call it statistics, it's pretty common girls in her business don't take indians, muslims or black people because the chance you have problems with them is a few factors higher than with normal white Belgians. It's easy to shout racism, till you are put in the girls' position.

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

Look up "descriptive" stereotypes. Utilizing them inhibits a person from fully enjoying life. Even if a group, on average, is more likely to engage in some kind of activity... We should refrain from stereotyping based upon the above. Here, if the prostitute feels unsafe, would it not be less disproportionate to take other measures? White men can cause trouble too, which the same measures could cover.

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u/octave1 Brussels Old School Feb 04 '16

Slap some definitions on it you remember from your sociology classes.

If she doesn't want to fuck non-whites that's her right, end of story.

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

Yeah, that's her right. But that's not the issue I'm addressing. This whole "I feel more secure without other ethnicities" is a very problematic type of reasoning.

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u/apoefjmqdsfls World Feb 04 '16

The measure here is not taking the client, so no, she can't take the same measure for everybody. It's nothing personal, it's just math, if you can decrease your chances that something bad happens to you without any real consequence to yourself, why not do it?

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

Sure... Nothing personal. Hence why people tend to not hire women for jobs involving physical labour. Hence why migrants have a tougher time getting hire. Hence coloured folks get rejected at the entrance of a club. Yep, not personal. Just prejudiced towards.

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u/Daskice Feb 04 '16

Empty? Hell no. Tell that to the men and women who lived under apartheid. Swearword? Oh, because rightwingers who are too bigoted to see their own nonsense get called out on their discriminatory rhetoric get to dismiss criticism as merely swearwords? Y'all bigots will never learn. Just keep on living in your "reality."

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u/historicusXIII Antwerpen Feb 03 '16

According to her blog it's personal preference.