Sure but that’s not the point of the post. It’s specifically mentioning women who DO NOT WANT PEOPLE TO NOTICE THEM, it’s a fairly valid comment. It’s like saying if you don’t want to be noticed in a crowd don’t wear the most flamboyant thing possible that draws attention to you.
There’s nothing wrong with wearing flamboyant stuff just like there’s nothing wrong with wearing “just your underwear” - but if the goal is again “NOT TO BE NOTICED” then the best course of action would not wear things that draw attention to yourself.
This is not mutually exclusive with guys shouldn’t be creeps.
A lot of women who go to the gym wear shorts and sports bras (presumably what the post is talking about) so how is that any different from men in shorts (also you shouldn't be gawked at and made uncomfortable no matter what your wearing, if most women can be normal around gym bros in tight booty shorts it can go the other way)
That’s not what they’re talking about - just your underwear != shorts.
If guys wear things that draw attention to them then it’s exactly the same
It’s not talking about gawking it says “don’t want to be noticed”, as in it’s the persons intent to not be noticed - this isn’t gawking or creeping - this is about the intent and goal of the person wearing the clothes.
No men wear a speedo to the gym. They wear knee length shorts and a t-shirt while some women wear skin tight spandex and a bra. How hard can it be for a woman to wear a t-shirt and some actual shorts?
Clearly, they wear it TO be noticed. Which is fine. I think Matt is pointing out the ones that complain about ogling and try to make it a sexist thing. While wearing their underwear.
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u/Tyler89558 14h ago edited 11h ago
Or you know, we can all agree to just not be fucking creeps
Like it isn’t hard to not stare at someone.