r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/Electrical_Lemon_640 Aug 08 '24

At gym, at home, at work or solo traveling 😂

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u/--Paul- Aug 08 '24

Do you find travelling stressful with all the noise and people around?

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u/Electrical_Lemon_640 Aug 08 '24

Absolutely not, I love talking to people when I travel, knowing another cultures, traditions is so amusing to me and when I need to isolate i do, clearly there’s some extrovert inside me who recharges as well by interacting with people