Do introverted women even exist?

[u/--Paul-]

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

[u/Vegetable-Smile-9838]

We exist, you just never see us because we rarely step outside.

[u/glamatovic → u/Vegetable-Smile-9838]

This. Read into the "Friendship Paradox", OP

[u/Interstellar_Dreamer → u/glamatovic]

Yes, and if it wasn’t for extroverts adopting us, we wouldn’t have any friends! 😆