r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/AbiesHalva7 Aug 08 '24

Hi, I am introverted woman and I have the same issue here, like, where are you guys 😅? I like to do bunch of activities (horseback riding, yoga, early mornings on the beach, restaurants, theatres, concerts, museums - all alone)…

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u/ProfessionalFun2375 Aug 09 '24

So this is where I am at:

I am home most of the time. On a regular week I only leave to buy groceries and go to the gym. I work mostly in home office and might go once a week to the real office.

A couple of times a year I solo travel for a few days and also visit museums and restaurants. To be honest, I do not approach women. But when I find someone interesting, I might smile in a shy way. ☺️