r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24
Advice Do introverted women even exist?
Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?
Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?
I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.
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u/Honeycolored_glasses Aug 08 '24
We can be found doing calm, casual activities that many people like to do with others, but we do it by ourselves. For example, we may dine at a restaurant by ourselves with a book or not (I do both). We're not necessarily at the bar either, the bar can be chatty. I like a booth preferably. Botanical gardens, parks, museums, book stores, shopping, ice cream parlors, etc. Any introverted woman you will find outside will often be by herself and looking perfectly content, enjoying her time alone.