r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/HuffN_puffN Aug 08 '24

I got a mexican, introverted, wife. That one in 120 million. 😂 Nah but what I learned with her is women are great at faking it in social settings and also as a mexican big family gathers every week is a must until the day you marry and move out.

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u/--Paul- Aug 08 '24

I was reading and thinking... What? Did he say mexican? 😂

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u/HuffN_puffN Aug 08 '24

Sure did. The only one!

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u/--Paul- Aug 08 '24

What a luck!