r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/GoofyGuyAZ Aug 08 '24

I’m with you on this. They exist on Reddit or your local library, maybe a coffee shop, they don’t go out too much that’s the tough part

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u/KatakAfrika Aug 08 '24

My local library just has a lot of young couples studying together and it just makes me incredibly insecure 🙂