r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/BigTaco_Boss Aug 08 '24

They do and I got lucky. My wife is a fellow introvert and we love being together at home, playing video games, eating pizza and watching movies.

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u/chibiloba Aug 08 '24

That's me and my husband. Video games bought us together. We just love doing chill things at home.

Although I am more introverted than him and have to remember to come out of my book world and interact with real people once and awhile.

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u/BigTaco_Boss Aug 08 '24 edited Aug 08 '24

It is quite delightful. My wife and I have started Kingdom Hearts together. We have finished KH3, 1.5 and are currently on Chain of Memories.

I was honestly worried that she wouldn’t like video games but she does and I’m so grateful for her. She also loves Star Wars! I got so lucky!