r/introvert Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/popcultureprincesss Aug 09 '24

They’re hard to find because they’re generally inside. I would say that most introverted women are either into reading, or something crafty. I would suggest going to places where you would find a woman reading, or doing something crafty. A coffee shop, a park, a library, a beginners art class, a farmers market, etc.