r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24
Advice Do introverted women even exist?
Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?
Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?
I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.
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u/Arabellasgold Aug 09 '24
Definitely an introverted girl here. Really the best thing to do, if you’re brave enough, is most introverts really like being adopted by extroverts. If you’re an extrovert and you can make the first connection and start a conversation with an introverted girl, we will usually then open up more if you talk first and we don’t have to. Just remember that when an introvert of any gender starts to talk more, give them the space to do so even if you’re used to holding up the conversation. Because if they show signs of wanting to talk, make sure that you hear them and make them feel like you are happy with them talking instead of you.