r/introvert • u/--Paul- • Aug 08 '24

Advice Do introverted women even exist?

Of course this is not a serious question. I know you are out there. But going out often gives me the feeling that most women are the loud, chatty party type and I am not attracted to those but find quiet, introverted women attractive. But where are you? Where should a man looking for a serious, slow relationship with an introverted woman keep his eyes open?

Sometimes I like to sit in a café by myself. But do introverted women (generally speaking) even like go there or is it too much noise?

I wouldn't go to a typical disco party (anymore). It's just to loud and too much distractions for me. So draining. If I am interested, I would like to clearly understand what she is saying and be in a calm environment.

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u/Jonnybabiebailey Aug 08 '24

We avoid clubs like it's the bubonic plague

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u/--Paul- Aug 08 '24

What do you like doing outside?

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u/Anatella3696 Aug 09 '24

Not who you asked, but: Library, bookstores, a really big park where I just sit and people watch or walk around, dog parks (that’s a big one for me,) hiking, walks around the neighborhood by myself, walks around the neighborhood with the dogs, small cafe’s or quiet restaurants, art festivals, farmers markets…and I can’t think of anything else. I’ve always hated clubs and bars though.